gitana17 if not you,then who? if not now,then when?
I’m not a cougar,but for a year now i’ve been in love with somebody 19 years younger than me,at first i didn’t want to be involved in this kind of relationship, it just happened and i’m very happy that i gave it a shot,he opened the world for me y taught me a couple of great lessons.Obviously,for me,this was something totally worth doing.
May 15, 08:45PM PDT | 0 comments
So the guy I will call ‘yoga man’ is a full 10 years younger than I am and believes I am younger than he is!!!!
He did ask me my age and I couldn’t answer because I wanted to laugh too hard to answer.
I owe him the answer. Like most guys in their late 30’s he is looking for someone to still have his babies. That won’t be happening with me, so I owe him the truth. But, I can see why so many of my friends tell me not to tell the truth.
Omission is one thing. Outright deception is something I wouldn’t do. Damn. I like yoga man. Very cute, large, brilliant egghead. It would be hard to be him. Cute and much too smart for most women. Think Big Bang characters but with great physiques and weight lifting muscles.
Oh well….
Dec 24, 09:12AM PST | 0 comments
I guess I do look 6-10 years younger than I am because no one ever believes my age. It happened again Friday night. He’s at least 8 years younger and believes I am his age. I am not going to say no…when he asks…and he will…nor will I run.
Nov 09, 01:46PM PST | 1 comment
*tEa GaL* got a job after 7 months and is loving it!
The guy I started dating from Church is 9 years younger than myself.
9 years isn’t a huge difference but all in all, it’s still 9 years.
Look at it this way.
When I was 16 he was 7.
Sep 20, 05:37AM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment
Like many other women who responded, I too have mostly dated older men. I found them to be bitter, overburdened and overwhelmed. My first younger man was 9 years younger than I and it didn’t go so well. He was dating several other women and really just wanted to play the field. The second is 16 years younger than me and I’ve never been happier.
He’s amazingly patient, a great communicator and isnt’ afraid to be silly. He has goals and is working hard towards them. He is mature for his age and we get along so well.
The only drawback is that he has yet to live a real bachelor life. So, if we end up together he’ll be missing out on all those “sewing oats” days (drinking with buddies, sleeping with lots of women, etc.) and I’m afraid he may end up regretting his decision later.
Jan 21, 2008, 02:19PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments
And, he wants a second date!
Jan 19, 2008, 06:25PM PST | 0 comments
young ones ask…i run. no longer.
what have i been afraid of?
I have always dated older guys (and i mean much older) but run from the younger guys.
No longer. I am here!
Jan 01, 2008, 10:10AM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments
I’ve dated a couple of guys that are younger than me only to be cheated on (in a big a very public way) and treated like crap. It has been my experience that men older than me are more on my level in terms of maturity and intellect, they know better how to treat a woman, and are ready for a “grown up” relationship.
Not all men are like this, it’s just the trend I’ve noticed.
Dec 30, 2007, 04:33PM PST | 0 comments
...i’ve gone both ways. (ahem!) I’ve dated up 13 years younger and 9 years older. For the most part i think it all has much more to do with where one is at in their life, and who the two people are….
That said, i have drawn the line against guys who were born when i was in High School, or those i couldve given birth too….
(i’ll wait till my 70’s for those….)
;D
Dec 23, 2007, 02:37PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments
Dec10, 2007
19 months ago
OK, so one guy was worth it and two were not. One was probably my soul mate and I screwed it up, one was physically abusive to me as well as a thief, and one was co-dependant, verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive to me & the kids while also physically abusive to the kids.
Dec 10, 2007, 05:21AM PST | 0 comments