Control my tongue ("If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.")

I work for some people who are just learning how to be supervisors. I find myself getting very upset when I get conflicting orders, or find that my supervisor is acting out of fear of his/her “position”. If I just let it rest a day or so it all seems to work out properly. Perhaps one of the advantages of getting older is the knowledge that “it really doesn’t matter that much.”

grrr! I can’t controll myself :|

Let’s start again… :[

I’m so sorry :/ but I must create new account :/ I change something and now I can’t log in on my real account : “maliboo” so… please write to me on malibo with 3x ooo—> “malibooo”

:( ught

It is probably the hardest lesson in my life…

I’ll never learn that control…

It was my evil twin!!!!

My friend called me a fat arse and what can I say the fur was flying fast & furious_~

i completely agree. i am way to negative and cruel to my younger brother. he has a learning disability, and is in IEP, SPED and all of that. we have a good relationship and we love eachother with all our hearts. but when we get into a fight, it normally ends with me saying very cruel words to him to try to make him angry because im so mad. ill call him dumb, stupid, retarded, moronic….anything bad i can think of to hurt his feelings… i feel horribly afterwards, but i keep saying it. he just pushes my buttons. i feel bad because after awhile, he begins to belive that he is stupid. im also really condescending, purposefully using big words and making him feel dumb for not knowing it and i know its so horrible, but i just get so mad at him beacuse hes TRYING to get me mad. i need to be the bigger man and keep my mouth shut for his sake because i love hgim so much and dont want to hurt his self esteem or quality of life any more.

and say something cruel, or someone will upset me and I use caustic language to “get them”. Someone once said ” I never regretted anything I did not say.” I need to just think and try and understand how my language can make someone feel. WWJD