Hate Middle Name
9 months ago
Always hated middle name, was teased way too much as a child. I’m an adult now. I want to change my middle name to one of my choosing.
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Ivymere continually searches for her ground, her sky, and herself
I need to keep thinking
19 months ago
about this desire to change my middle name AND to change my first name. I will take this off my list for now as I cannot achieve (or am not willing to make such a move) this yet…too many things going on. I need to think clearly.
And I need another space for a goal I want to do. I will re-add this soon. :)
Ivymere continually searches for her ground, her sky, and herself
Hating my middle name....
21 months ago
I’ve hated my middle name for as long as I can remember. It doesn’t help that I used to get teased for it and even today, I’m ashamed of it. The thing is, most mature people can’t even figure out how people make fun of my name (but they’re forgetting that kids have great imaginations….). I’m over it but the thing is, I also did really change my middle name (my parents refer to me by the new one now – instead of my first name) so I want it to legally reflect that as well.
raised to be polite, not to suffer bullshit Life is too short to make just one decision
because my extended family is seriously flawed
2 years ago
so i was named after my father’s two sisters.
his oldest sister, the source of my middle name, is a fucking selfish nut job. after she flew off the handle and disowned my father (and, subsequently, the entirety of my immediate family), i no longer wish to bear the name of such a nasty old whore.
hm, yes, can we talk about how she married some eighty-some-year-old guy for his money, threw him into a nursing home, destroyed the relationship he had with his son, and slowly killed him? this, all while she was openly having an affair with a much younger (and, surprisingly, REALLY NICE) fellow? and how she is the only one in the family who harps on the fact that her father is not the same person as her four siblings’ father? and how she is simply an awful, manipulative, egocentric bitch?
i started filling out the forms for a legal name change, which is really exciting (even though i need to go through several layers of law-filled fun and cough up $200 before i can make anything happen). and i’ve found a respectably family name i can adopt as my middle name, and i’m really happy about that, too.
