become a better sister

i see my brother slipping farther and farther into a bad kid everyday…i tried a couple of approaches…like those things arent cool…he didnt care…i tried the authoratative approach…screaming and yelling will get you no where…now ive just kinda given up..i let him smoke with me when we drive places…i talk to him about the things ive done (drugs/alcohol) when he asks…and i just support him…i dont want my brother to end up in jail..and i feel like he’s there…he can barely make it through school…but i guess that i have no place to talk…i was failing out of school until a month ago when something just light a fire under my ass…maybe it was a shitty job..or maybe it was realising what the real world is like..either way hes the only one who can control his actions…i can just stick by and be there for him