become happy with how I look

Sure, if I another individual told me that “I am ugly” and began crying I could easily raise her self-esteem so she believed [or perhaps acted to make me happy?] that she was beautiful. Although that is accomplished successfully, I can never do it to myself. I don’t know what is wrong with me, am I truly so ugly to myself that I am not willing to be happy with the way I look? Or maybe it is because I am so terribly undesirable in my core [and only I know it] that I can not be happy with the shell unless it is so perfect no one would guess what lies beyond. Why am I so contradicting? When will I ever be happy ^[truly]? Must I make myself become want I want to look like in order to be happy, or just learn to accept the reality and know that it is the best I can look and be happy with the way I am now? I hate everything I am, outside and in.
At least I’m trying to understand the paradox I have become…

ugly r hot…most ppl look at u in that,thats wat diff.if some ppl say ur ugly just say’‘well,aren’t happy ur not me!’’ and there more ppl ugier than others,so try to fix urself,i woke early…getof pimples…,take alot of pics,look my clothes n match em!=]

ive been trying this for some time at times i accomplish it but then it goes back down to zero:(

I decided to get a tatoo, do some daily workout and get a tan and everyday I feel a little better about myself and try to give myself a positive message…and ignore the negatives ones (‘that’s not my voice speaking’) and it’s working…

Just take your time and slowly build up your confidence with things that get you noticed and complimented and at the same time tell yourself daily that you are beautiful in your own way even if no-one else does it (they soon will) And stop beating yourself up!

I am so insecure about the way I look it’s ridiculois.

I WANT TO BECOME HAPPY

At some point, I just looked in the mirror one day and found myself thinking “I’d do you.” I’ve been seeing beautiful ever since.

i have a whole lot about my self esteem this is going to be pretty hard i think… i guess im not to fond of myselff :(

I found it hard to like how I look at times. I grew up with people praising my sister who has fair skin. I grew up in a country that makes skin whiteners a staple in the advertising industry. Its hard for me to love my naturally tan skin and what I look like because of this.

But I feel tired of this self-hate. I want to see myself as a beautiful person. I want to look at the mirror and say that I look beautiful. I want to take pictures of myself and not get disappointed.

I know its going to be hard to change what I was used to but I will change. I’m going to start by looking at the mirror then telling myself that I am beautiful in my own way.

I am comfortabe with how i look