My fiance Justin is currently in Afghanistan for six more months. And whenever he returns, we plan on getting married. It’s nothing like what I had originally had in mind whenever I used to think about ever getting married, but everything just feels so right with him. He changed my mind about everything I had ever thought about military men and relationships. I know it’s going to be hard, but it’s a challenge i’m willing to take on. And in the long run, I think it will be one of the best things i’ve ever done in my life. I just hope that we don’t end up like so many other marriages in the world these days. Everyone’s always telling me that the married life sucks and that I should never do it, and I used to actually never want to get married. But with him everything just feels so right.
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