Stop telling people what they want to hear and start saying what really needs to be said

but, I think this is big enough to cross it off my list. I mean, it was worth doing, because I wasn’t lying, but for the moment, it feels so wrong. I hope it’ll go away, but I’m not so sure.

The story is… I told my best friend the cold, hard truth about her boyfriend and she totally freaked. She said that I don’t know anything and I was like ok. I don’t. And she said goodbye. That’s it.

Usually she figures out the truth after thinking about it, but i dont know this time. Let’s just hope she does.

Well, I did it.

Doing this has changed my life for the better. . . but it definitely has not made my life easier. Now I’m working on getting better at telling people what needs to be said in ways they can hear it.