forget about my ex

WHAT A COW

The idea of letting bygones be bygones. I wish I could leave the past where it is, but I can’t. I’m one of those girls who gives everything she has into a relationship, regardless of how old I am, regardless of how bad the guy is for me, I give him everything I have, including money, so I’ve lost a few hundred dollars to each of my previous relationships. The first one I’ve nearly forgotten, at least all the really negative stuff, just little details here an there, like the model kits he used to build or the songs we would listen to. The most recent ex (a near two years ago now), still pains my thoughts. I wish I could get the truth out of him, as I suspect there being somebody else that came into the picture that he was enjoying more than me, besides the drugs, anyway. I just wish I knew what made it really fall apart, since that was the most difficult one. And though I felt that the first guy I was with was going to be it (how naive I was at 14), I fell much more hard for the second guy, so it was that much more heart breaking when we went our seperate ways. It’s difficult to forget that one, as I’m still friends with his mother, who is an amazing woman, and thinks he’s an imbecile for F*ing up with me…but she’s glad I’m happy with my new guy. We’re helping each other, as he had a very long term relationship before me, and my ex’s both lasted nearly 3 years, but I don’t know if I’ll ever forget them, I just want to forget the negative stuff, and leave that bitter after taste that I get when I think about him behind for good.

i’ve done this to the extent it can be. i miss talking to him, but i am glad i’m not in that relationship anymore.

It has been over a year.
I moved out to a new place, met new people, but still can’t fully forget about him. Let go…

I thought I was doing great until I got email from him one day. I freaked out. I thought I got over him, but ovbiously I did not. Now it’s time to tell him to leave me alone.

I can do it, I can say that. Just leave me alone, it’s over, and I need to move on. Be strong.

My ex and I broke up almost two years ago, yet he is still on my mind. I have a new boyfriend, we have been dating for 13 months. I know its not fair to him to still think about my ex, but I never got any closure and I have alot of trouble understanding what went wrong. I would never get back together with him and I love my boyfriend very much, but I can’t seem to get over the hurt and the anger I have towards him.

My boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with me. He still wants to be friends but I don’t know if it’s possible. Every time I hear his voice I end up crying. He also thinks when he returns home (he is leaving for a few months) that I will still be waiting for him if he changes his mind. How do I forget about him and is it the right thing to do?

Ok it has officially went on way 2 long! and I’ve had enough, this infatuation with him is over!! He’s a user, abuser good 4 nothing lil so and so! and I spend too much time thinking of him, ignoring the possibilities in front me! Today is the day…enough is enough…!

i broke up with my ex over 3 years ago, but we have continued to talk and see eachother off and on. for the most part, i was ok with this and didnt feel sad about it. i think deep down i always thought we’d get back together. in the past few months, however, for some reason i became head over heals in love with my ex again and he’s just not feeling it at this time he says. so i have stopped talking to him. its only been like a week. i feel just as bad as when we broke up 3 years ago. all i want is him. but all i want is to forget he ever existed too. all i think about is him- when i wake up- all day at work- when i go to sleep. i cant imagine him with someone else. :(

Done.

When you have absolutely no fond memories left this is surprising easy to do.

The thing that sickens me the most is that she ruined so many other great things in my life with her stupid, selfish crap, and I let her do it.

Chalk it up to yet more bad judgement on my part, forget all about her and move on…