This may sound so pathetic, but I feel like a very small amount of people that I have been “friends” with were ever really friends at all. But because I wanted to be well-liked I would allow frenemy after frenemy to walk all over me and take advantage of my friendship. I have recently started cutting people out of my life. People who aren’t as concerned with my well-being as I am for theirs’ are no longer considered friends in my book. That makes me sad, but I think I am more sad when most of my friends would treat me like my bad ex’s would. If I wouldn’t be mistreated by males why on earth would it just be okay for females to act that way towards me? I want to figure out completely who my true friends are, the qualities in them that make them so magnificant, and find ways to strengthen our friendships and make them feel appreciated and cared for. I would also like to start meeting new quality people so I can expand my circle.
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ladybird tommorow is another day.
This is one of the most important goals. My friendships are stronger and I want them more stronger.
I am expanding this goal to include myself and God.
I want to build strong friendship with myself.
I want to spend more time in my strong friendship with God!
I asked someone to share an activity with me and two people said yes. I’m excited. I’m on my way to spending more time with cool people and becoming a better friend.
ladybird tommorow is another day.
we met D.’s new BF and plan to go hiking together stil nothing
we went to see D&V’s new baby daughter and i want to bake a bread to her didn’t yet; i want see baptism they didn’t called me :(
planing to see M. soon and see pictures from Australia of him and his DW and maybe we can go rowing together called 4 times to arrange it but both couldn’t, maybe i can call him in Sat again
planing to see V. soon and go for a trip together yes, we were on a long walks round a lake 2x and it was great
planing to go biking with G. and maybe aerobic class we met once on lunch i can send her a msg in Sun for biking
that is all so much more than before
what i want is to build so strong and family-like relationship that we can drop any time spontaneously to each others house
not sure if it is possible but worth trying
...i would like that my sister is not so far away…
i want to build a warm nest of my living room, nice pleasant home, welcoming dear guests and spending nice time together
edit 2 weeks later
Just by camping at Lahontan, I made some new friends and built stronger ones with current friends. I could check this one off now, but I think this is a continuous improvement goal.
