Ive realised that this can be in relation to friends, not just boyfriends.
My best friends are my university friends who I have now known for 5 years, and we lived together for 3 of those years so are pretty damn close. Ive always been quite a guarded person who doesnt really talk about problems or feelings, but over the years my friends have made me realise that its a good thing to do and this has enabled me to open up. Recently Ive been having a particularly bad time at work, not with the actual work but the politics of everything and how staff are treated. Its difficult to talk about this with my friends because I dont see them that often and things require a back story, plus I dont like bothering them. Well last week I was not feeling good at all and my friend text me asking how things were and I ended up having a massive moan to him about things, and he was so great, he told me thats what hes there for, and gave me some good advice and also told me never to worry about moaning to him because hes my friend and he loves me and thinks im great. This totally brightened my day because I realised that I have a really close group of friends who I can tell anything to and won’t judge me because of it :-) 1 week ago
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Most of the images we have of love and romance come from movies, television and romance novels. They’re all about pursuit and capture, dominance and submission. Once the guy gets the girl, the movie ends. That leaves us with a considerably incomplete picture of love as it is in the real world. Love is much more than just an experience of beginnings.As the relationship progresses past the “honeymoon” stage, some of the masks we initially wore begin to come off. We soon discover that we carry several unrealistic expectations that can prevent us from getting to know the other person for who they really are. It is better to let our partner be him/herself and see what happens. 3 weeks ago
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I feel so alone lately. Over the past two months, each day gets harder and at the end of everyday I feel like I only have one person. If things dont work out with him, I wouldnt know what to do with myself and thats what scares me. I know if I lost him, there would be less of a chance of me ever being happy again. 4 weeks ago
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is this one even possible, people just want their other half to be better than what they can be 4 weeks ago
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i just want a good man who loves me for me and my children 1 month ago
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It is 10:58 pm, Monday, March 11th, 2013 and my girlfriend loves me. 2 months ago
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