trust people again

I once did but I am finding it hard to trust other people right now. I was being betrayled and now I cant even trust myself. But I want to trust people again because its important and it will make my life easier and easier.

m so happy and peaceful these days, i lov my bf, yes i met sumone, he helped me out, he’s the kind u can trust with confidence.
i wanted that, i believed in him, had faith in him, thats all he needs, we both have faith in each other.
He also helped me with my criticism, he so criticised me and i felt like running away, but he wudnt let me go, he made me deal with it, he’s multi tasking, helping me out with everything.

It can really suck when you repeat the same behavior again and again and again, a self fulfilling prophecy because it happened once in a relationship you just start looking for it to happen again and if it doesn’t start to happen of its own accord you help it along. You look for the behavioral patterns that don’t exist; you look at the person in a different light. Are they doing the same as x? You start to push the person away. You push things toward what you believe to be inevitable because it is easier to know where it is all going to end than to have it come along when you least expect it and really kick you in the bollocks. It is easier to have it happen in a controlled environment of your own making, to be able to regulate the pain. For you to be in control this time. To say, “I told you all so.” Is this really living? Repeating the same thing over and over and not even allowing the ones you love to have their own try without being pigeonholed in to a space left by a previous relationship?
Looping over and over. The faces change but that history repeats.

No. It is not living.