be the best friend

audre bff

i’m working on it!

I have found a friend that i really work with. I am so happy I met her, because we connect on so many different levels and i feel so lucky to know this girl. We can talk about absolutely anything, shallow or deep, and can help eachother work through the biggest and smallest problems. We can have so much fun or be really serious. We completely relate to eachother and can agree to disagree when we have different views on things. We really are so open with eachother, more than any “best” friend that i have ever had. I think we really encourage eachother and help eachother grow and deal with things. So I don’t really know if i will ever check this thing as done, because I know I can always improve. But I’m definitely getting there.

so my “best” friend is obviously insecure and needs her boyfriend to feel good about herself, even though he is so problematic i can’t even begin to describe it. hopefully she figures out she is being an idiot before i get completely fed up with the situation… i tried being the good friend for months and she doesnt seem to be getting out of this hole.

I had a friend 4-5 years ago that I lost about 2-1/2 years ago, She met a guy and I was out of the picture, I swore if I ever had another friend like that I would do everything I could to be the best friend. To my surprise they broke up and she is back in my life. I’m doing my best to be THE BEST FRIEND. She’s had a lot of ups and downs lately, I just hope that I can help make the ups better through talking and enjoying them with her and the downs less sad or stressful by talking and sympathizing with her. I am truly fortunate to have her in my life, I hope she feels the same.