Get along with my sister

We’re still not getting along 100% of the time. But I guess that’s because she’s just moody. She’s always saying how she’s soo different from me. And she says it in such a weird tone. It’s odd. I guess once she turns 15 years old we’ll start getting along. I dunno.

We’re getting along a lot better than we used to. We even share a room! But she always messes it up! :( But that’s okay. :) I’m good at cleaning. She’s good at messing things up.. Idk.

My sister has always been a pain. And ever since I turned 13 she’s been acting as if I only care about myself. Hello? No. I care about a lot of people including myself.

My sister has an account on 43things.com She is 10. I do all the typing for her when she posts an entry.

http://www.43things.com/person/BillieJean101

I don’t know…She likes Michael Jackson. I made up her user name. She doesn’t even like 43things.com. I told her that 43Things actually will help you get things done. She doesn’t really get it. Whatever.

About a year ago, when my father was getting ordained we were leaving for a reception for him. We were arguing in the car over how I don’t appreciate her bossy nature and how I am hurt that she treats like less of a person. I said to her that it’s as if you don’t love me. Her reply was “Yes that’s right I don’t love you.”

I was really hurt and she never understood that.

So for most of you that get annoyed, get away for a bit and let your mind breath. You will alwyas love your sibling except for my case. After reading your entries i feel the same in most cases. It’s simple communication that is needed to mediate a very terse situation.

I am probably never going to speak to her and hold this anger in my heart until she steps up and apologizes.

Right now we have about a 48-hour period of together time until I get REALLY IRRITATED! I have a very difficult time in accepting how different we are, partly because she’s painted as the “perfect” one and that’s ANNOYING. She’s not “perfect”, she’s just very typical and that makes people feel better. Or something… I’m getting irritated just writing about it. I am trying to just let it all be but I can only hold my tongue for so long. It’s either bitching about her behind her back or telling it to her face and having her get pissed off because I’m being a bitch.

I’m going to keep a distance for now. While I love my sister very much, I have to remove myself from the line of fire. I’m never going to apologize to her again, because she’s never gonna let me off the hook. She’s obsessed with childhood issues, making it impossible to live in today.

Shes 13, I’m 17. I love her toooo much. We are best friends. I’m glad we finally started getting along, it makes it so much better living here.

i find it’s easier to live and let live. does that count?