reconcile a friendship

I have done a really bad and stupid thing to a best friend. He knows that it was me who did it. If I admit it, the friendship would go sour, but if I don’t admit it, this incident will always stand between us. So I didn’t admit it, but it’s obvious to him that I know that he knows it’s me who did it, just without me admitting to it! Although we still talk and see each other, but he treats me like an acquintance or may even find me annoying as I am trying to do everything to make it up to him! I know without a frank talk and confession, it would never be like before again. So, my conclusion is, the friendship is has gone sour no matter I admit or don’t. I hate myself that there’s nothting I could do to reconcile this friendship and I deeply regret what I have done. Will the scar gradually fade with time and our friendship improve? I mean I will never do anyting that would hurt him or our friendhship again!

I did it, and boy does it feel good :-)

We talked and it turned out it wasn’t as serious as I thought. So we’re basically back to normal now and I’m not worried about it any more.

She was mad at me for about 2 years. I guess she knew that I didn’t mean to upset her, but neither of us knew how to get back together like the good old days… :(

Finally a month earlier she approached me via another close friend of ours, and asked me to help her design her company web site. And that’s how we did it ! :D

I’ve fallen out with someone I was really good friends with for many years. The problems started in November 2005 and things have been weird ever since then. Trouble is, I don’t know what I did wrong. She just started treating me differently one day, with no emotion, as if she was upset with me. I didn’t ask why at the time because I didn’t know how she’d handle the confrontation. It’s been months and I still don’t know how to confront her about it, especially since she’s unwell and I don’t want to make her even unhappier. It’s a really important realtionship in my life and I’m determined to reconcile it. We were very close in 2005! I’m also very close to her daughter and I want to be involved in her life. I’ve been missing out on a lot of it because of this broken friendship.

so i called her. and realized that the reasons i stopped being her friend havent changed at all, they may have even gotten worse. so i am officially giving up on this goal. i dont want to reconcile my friendship with her anymore, i do miss the person she use to be when we first started talking. but the person she is now is not someone i want to have in my life. i may be mean and judgmental for that, but its true.

she was my best friend, i miss her. i just cant seem to get enough guts to ring her and tell her that everything that happened doesnt matter.

My best friend and I (whom I’ve know since I was 5) reconciled over Thanksgiving. Its under unhappy circumstances on her part, but she needs me and I’m here for her. We’ve missed each other and it’ll take a while to get things back to the way they were, but I’m happy she’s back in my life.