be the best wife

My husband has been going through some difficulties lately in his job – well people at his workplace. I’m not going to get into it now but trust me its bad. Anyhew I’ve been trying to support him and I think some days are going better than other. But I am trying my best to make sure that I keep him happy and be supportive and just all around be the best wife I can be, this I do with God’s help.

Please pray that I will be the best in this.

hi im Asif anybody help me pls give me a wife

My husband and I were married in April 2007. I was so happy, even though I didn’t have the support of my own mother, I was determind to be happy with my new life.
Things were going great for a while and then in the past 8 months, it feels like we fight all the time.
I love him so much, but I feel like everything I do puts him 2 steps in front of me. I feel like I’m almost working for him and when it get’s to me loose it. I know I shouldn’t but I scream for 5 mins then I go quite, only talking when I’m spoken to.
I wonder if he’s wanting a 1950’s wife. On many occasions I’ve asked how I can make him happy. Last night I asked him what he wanted from me as a wife. He said why bother. I feel like i’m a bad person. Isn’t a wife’s role to support and love her husband and to make him as happay as possible. I’ve failed not just once but over and over again.
I just don’t know what to do, would a break from our relationship help me to become more appreciative of what I’ve got, or would it drive him further away. Should I try and learn how to become a 1950’s wife? but what if I can’t do it? What if i’m so useless that I can’t get it right?
I know I’ve gone up two dress sizes and i’m trying to loose the weight, but would his really help? I’dont know.

I hope that by learning that my husband comes first, no matter what it cost’s me, by becomming the 1950 style wife and improving my looks I can become the best wife that my husband could ever want.
I also have to remember that my problems are just that mine and I should try and keep them to myself.

I don’t want my husband to resent me. I want him to be able to say “look there’s my wife”, I want him to be proud that I belong to him and I just want to make him smile and look at me the way he did 4 years ago.

I’m a failure now but I hope that I can become the best wife I can.

I don’t think I’m a good wife, we’re both very stubborn and come from houses that had lots of shouting and fighting so its hard to just sit and want to talk things through – it always ends up us cursing each other – which isn’t good either :(

I don’t know I just want him to be happy and us to be happy, but he makes me so angry sometimes and then I go off again aswell or just ignore him, and its not what its supposed to be like you know. We’re supposed to be best friends, lovers and comrades.

I have been married since April of ‘07. After marrying, we quickly began our family and had our first son Dec of ‘07 and just as quickly as Daniel came along we are pregnant again.
The babies are taking so much of my time that I feel I sometimes neglect my husband.

Went to the craft store…tryin to recreate the jessica simpson and nick valentines day feeling…got a small scrapbook and going to ask family to scan pictures…and write something postive about him and our marrige on every page….dorky I know…

‘If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems! Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs. She will not hinder him, but help him all her life. She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She buys imported foods, brought by ship from distant ports. She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household, and plans the day’s work for her servant girls. She goes out to inspect a field, and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard. She is energetic, a hard worker, and watches for bargains. She works far into the night.

She sews for the poor, and generously gives to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household, for she has made warm clothes for all of them. She also upholsters with finest tapestry; her own clothing is beautifully made – a purple gown of pure linen. Her husband is well known, for he sits in the council chamber with the other civic leaders. She makes belted linen garments to sell to the merchants.

She is a woman of strength and dignity, and has no fear of old age. When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. She watches carefully all that goes on through out her household, and is never lazy. Her children stand and bless her, so does her husband. He praises her with these words:

“there are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!”

Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn’t last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised. Praise her for the many fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from even the leaders of the nations’

Through all the challenging times in my relationship, i have realised one thing. Its not about me being able to change him but me being the best i can be to him, not only that but be the person i want him to be. What goes around comes around hey. If you need a total change in your marriage or a break through right now, stop listening to all the social worldly advice you been getting from everyone, AND LOOK AT YOURSELF! Ok you might say that ‘i have tried everything BUT its just not working’ NO NO NO! There is a certain principle in life, the sowing and reaping principle. for whatever you want to reap, you HAVE to sow it! And now is the time to put your pride aside, if you really want things to work, and let your love cause you to be a loving wife and more. Im talking to everyone here. Its not about if you are with the right person, but if you are the right person! You have to make your marriage!

In this new year im ready to step out of the routine… we have a great marriage and most of the credit goes to my husband for being so patient, understanding,and loving! He’s the greatest man alive im not kidding….so its my turn to step in and be the best wife out there! Im usually the one that argues more and gets upset more…..its like hes bullet proof…hes awesome it takes alot to get him mad…so im soooo thankful that i have the best man out there! So in our 6th year of marriage im gonna be the best wife!! This is gonna be the best year ever!

I continue to pray about my relationship but also pray that i become a better person. that is, no anger, no hatred and be a gentle and quiet wife to him.