learn to have fun

Once there use to three girls looking at themself always. Oneday they were gone then three girls mother came in their bedroom and thats the end of the stoy.

I am 18, and I have never had fun. I look at all the other kids on campus and even my boyfriend having so much fun, but I can’t. I am just to uncomfortable around people to have a social life. I bury myself in my school work, and hide behind my success. In fact, the only time I really talk to people is when I am being interviewed. I can’t even stand myself. I don’t know why my boyfriend is even with me. Does anyone have any ideas about how to be normal and maybe get invited to a social event?

I feel your pain. I’m a single mom and my family depends on me financially, but also I volunteer once a month at my daughter’s school, sing on our worship team at church, take a bible study and pull my hair out every night. I’ve been told that I need to have fun but I DON’T KNOW HOW!!!!!

Yep, i can’t believe i am going to say this…i am 20 years old and don’t know how to have fun. All i do is study or work ..or both. Today i hit myself and realized how awful i am today. I have achieved things but it seems i am not having fun nor enjoying life. I think the best thing i can do is start drinking….even though i am not fond of it that much. AHHHHHHH people…help…any suggestions????

I have added this as number one on my list as although I do remember fun, feeling light, carefree I do not actually invest time or energy into putting this into my life. I am not working at the moment and its killing me!!!! Really hard for me to admit that learning to have fun is a much bigger goal than working to distract myself from life and all its unpredictability, which flipped over seems to me to be the same feeling as fun – you cant control fun, make it happen, plan it! It seems to come about when I let go of control in some way, let myself off the hook and the more I practise the more new ideas for pleasurable, exciting and motivating activities come to mind…..I hope that by learning to have more fun, I might just earn a living while doing it and feel alive rather than working all the time and having some sense that fun (life) comes later! Wish me luck!!!!

right now I don’t, money time, location..Middle of no where oklahoma. So maybe my goal should be to move….

getting better at this! Last night was a blast, i haven’t laughed so hard in a long time! let’s keep it up!