I have to understand that the reason I reject other people is for completely different reasons why people would reject me. And it’s okay to be rejected. I cannot be what every man hopes and dreams to find, I just need to be that for one person. I can’t change everything about myself simply because some guy didn’t think I was what he needed at this point in his life. I will find a yes among all the no’s. All the more reason to feel worthy of love even if someone rejects me. 2 years ago

but i am going to try my hardest to not loathe myself every time another person simply does not want me. at the same time, i do want to be able to look at my own flaws and find out why. the trick is figuring that out without hating myself in the process. 7 years ago