stay a virgin

I (personlly) am abstinent, but not until marriage. I will give my body upto my one true love. Whoever/Wherever you are, i am waiting.

Im gonna be 21 in about another 10 days and I want to kept my purity until with the right man. I have never dated or had a boyfriend in my life. I have come close to having a bf twice but I back out because I figured I would rather have friends. Im not against sex or anything, but I belive that I should remain a virgin until I am positive. It might become a somewhat overrated thing, our virginity but it means the world to me. It was always kinda depressing to hear ppl losing their virginity as youngas 15. Prom night is like a hiGh chance. But I have my own belief that I will stay pure for the man that I vow my love to.! YAY FOR THAT!

im 15, and am very much in love with my boyfriend, but im not nearly ready to have sex. i havent yet talked to him about this, but i know that sex is on his mind, and i dont know how he would react. hes atractive, and it would be very easy for him to break up with me to get with other girls (who are a lot easier than i am). its not the actual act of having sex that im scared of, its everything that comes afterwards. what if my whole school found out i had sex at 15? i dont have any huge regrets in life, and i dont want this to be my first. i would hate myself if i lost my virginity because i was under pressure. we’ve been going out for almost 9 months, and i know he wants to, and he’s a senior in high school and that means some of his friends are already having sex and soon he’ll be going off to college. he’s not pressuring me in any way, but i do feel a lot of pressure.

also, my aunt told me a long time ago that once you start having sex, thats all your guy will want. and you stop going on dates so you can stay home and have sex. and he’ll make up excuses to stay home when you do make plans to go out, so the girl will feel bad and stay home with him. im really scared that my relationship will become that.

i know that sex is more than something you do with someone you love, and i know you both have to feel ready to deal with the consequences. i dont what it feels like to be “ready,” but im pretty sure this isnt it. so, im going to talk to my guy, and if he’d rather break up with me so he can have sex with sluts instead of wait for me, thats okay because i dont want anything to do with a guy that shallow.

had sex…bummer lasted 18 years though ;0)

You’d think that for a plain Jane like myself, this wouldn’t have become an issue, and it didn’t until I left my small home town, moved to a big city and got a taste of University life. Yiiipe!!!! Well, I had to go through this sooner or later, now it is up to My judgement and My values and the encouragement of my friends and family to see this one through, but man, it is difficult.

I’ve seen too many of my friends and family members, girls and guys, destroy themselves, most confusing sex with love and the vast majority treating the act as just another hobby.

I don’t want to fall into any of these traps. Sex is a fraction of life that, I believe, should be approached with some reverance, not just thrown here, there and everywhere, to anybody. Maybe that is my upbringing talking, but, from what I’ve seen, itz just seems like common sense to wait until one is more able to cope with the results of one’s actions.

So, I have resolved to take it day by day. May I have the strenght, wisdom and perseverance to pull this one off….

This contradicts my goal of having an affair with my teacher, I’d swear I was in love with him. seriously…I don’t know what to do.

im sure sex is awesome, i mean EXCELLENT. but i’m a romantic. for instance, pride and prejudice…uhm, elizabeth was a virgin, and i think it made hers and darcys love that much stronger. when you’ve had sex partners before, you’ve already given away tiny tiny bits of yourself. though they may be unnoticable, i think the effects are there. is being a virgin a good idea? i dont know. i love the idea of having alot of boyfriends and having sex with all of them, like any normal person. but virginity…says something about a person. and i dont mean that you are a geek and cant get a boy/girl friend, i mean that you are a soul that believes in love. i dont know if i am right.