Not care what other people think

not care what others think:

-when i am talking with groups of people. I’m always feeling self concious because of i feel the pressure of the need to entertain ppl

-telling my points of view or proposing new ideas to others.

-showing that i’m excited happy or angry when somebody done somethings nice/mean towards me.

this are the most important thingright now that i feel i need to handle.

This would help me on so many levels…

I seem to take things quite seriously when people say something to me, then I worry and i dnt think its very good. I shouldnt care what other people think i should just be myself so I’m going to do this.:)

I know that people aren’t judging you when you act your complete self, but I feel like the way you act casts you in a type they may not like. I hate not being liked by someone so I tend to be reserved at first when meeting new people. I take every small comment about me to heart, and sometimes it can hurt. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I have lots of friends I act myself around. It’s just that I want to be myself around every body. I care what people think about what I wear, what I do, etc. This has held me back a little. I’ve improved lots this past year in achieving this goal. I just want to keep working on it. I know I can do it. It’ll just take some time…

OK – first step towards changing my outlook on life has started, hardest part so far is realising there is a need to change and making a concious effort to do something about it. I’ll keep you posted

I try to tell myself that people who judge others (especially people they don’t know) are dumb, so why would I care what dumb, judgmental people think of me? In a way that makes me judgmental too against judgmental people :)

Just the thought that people MIGHT be thinking negatively, even just a passerby, gets to me.
Because I want to be liked, I rarely truly speak my mind, and alter myself when possible to accommodate their comfort level.

If i could be free of this care, I could be free of so much anxiety and depression.
I hate being this person who cares so much, living in a bubble to contain my sadness over others thoughts.

Letting go of what other people think seems to be much more difficult for me than it sounds. To disappoint someone that matters or risk making them angry is something that I need to be okay with when it’s for my own good… but quite honestly, I’m completely stumped on how to get there.

just want to walk straight and not care about the wear and the stares, to be obliviously aware, not mind the looks and stop being so self concious.

I really wish i could not care what other people think about me. I take to heart everything everyone says, It hurts so much, All through school i have being called ugly and worthless only now it is having an impact on my adult life, i dont know what to do now.