This weekend was my husband and my 6th wedding anniversary. Henry has seen EFT do tremendous things in our lives, particularly mine.
On Friday, I used EFT on my son, without ever touching him, rather, I did surrogate EFT for him on myself. One time, I didn’t even do the physical tapping, but just imagined it in my head. I wasn’t sure if it would work or not.
We were driving back from my hometown. Sean was really fussy and crying. We were all buckled in and there was nothing I could do to give him what he wanted, so I began tapping the issue in my head. Within a few minutes, he stopped crying. Coincidence? Sean could cry for a long time, so it was cool.
On the drive to my hometown, he was fussing over something else and that time I did physical tapping on myself, and he calmed right now. The key is to understand the root cause of the issue. If you don’t, it may take a bit longer.
So, today, I wanted to so make love to my husband, but he said his eyes were hurting big time. I asked if he wanted me to tap for him. He said Yes. I was in a sexy nighty, no panties and I straddled his naked body. I began doing physical EFT on him that way. Oh, I forgot to say, earlier, I was doing the EFT on myself for him. That didn’t get too far, though he said that he did feel a little better.
Not quite sure how we ended up with him lying on the bed face up and me straddling him. I don’t think he was feeling very sexual at that point, though I was. So, I silently tapped on his body, thinking of the things he said he was feeling regarding his eyes, as he laid there.
We did several rounds, each time I would ask what he was feeling. I would tap on the things he told me. We remained silent throughout the tapping. I modified the tapping a bit to include both the underarm at the same time, and I alternated the hands, meaning I would tap one side on the first half the round and the 2nd half I would tap on the other side. I had 14 points in all, which included the head, but only half way through the full round.
With each round, how he felt was different. He ended up getting a headache near his temples. I tapped on that for a couple rounds, and that helped but not enough. I then had him situp as I did accupressure on the back of his head/neck area where the veins run from the temples to that area. That helped after several minutes of that. He was sitting with his back facing away from me, with him between my legs, naked.
I massaged his bald head between the accupressure, stroked his chest, legs, and gave him kisses. A part of this was a huge turn on for me.
He said what he physically felt went from a SUDs of 6 down to a 1-2, so that was an improvement. I could feel during some of the rounds a great amount of heat/energy in my body, so I know something was working. No, it was not me being turned on.
Anyway, I wasn’t sure that I could get it down to a zero and wondered if the remaining pressure in his head and eyes could be dissipated with lovemaking. And, I was right. He now feels great.
What I love about this EFT was he didn’t have to take any medications or anything. All of it was natural. I was able to help Henry with his physical issues.
This gives me ideas. My son (2.5 yrs old) has very poor incomprehensible speech. I wonder if with regular EFT if this could change his speech and his 2 yr old temper tantrums. Also, I wonder if with my daughter, this could help her in her self-esteem, and to make better choices? She’s 5.5 yrs old. She also sleeps so heavily that she wets the bed. She somehow cannot wake herself up to go pee. I wonder if I regularly tapped for her on this and prayed, asked God to reveal to me what the aspects of these issues are, that I could address them through tapping.
I would also like my husband to be more affection, use more words of encouragement, want to make love to me more often, be more organized, learn how to swim, and a few other things. I wonder if every morning during my prayer time, if I could take an extra half hour each morning and spend 10 minutes with each person, tapping for them, what would be the impact on their lives.
It’s worth a try. I may not do this every morning, but some mornings. It would be cool to see and experiment. This could only bring about good things.
And, I wonder if I could tap for my siblings & parents regarding their need (or lack of) for God. I wonder if it could draw us closer together into have real, meaningful relationships instead of the somewhat superficial ones we have.
Tackling all these might be a challenge, but certainly worth the try. It’s not like controlling people, rather I think it’s helping them release their emotional static from their lives, allowing them to be more their true selves, whatever that may be.