understand my boyfriend

i kno exactly how u feel lexali my bf is the same way he will be all depressed or just generally mad and i dont understand y when i ask about it he says nothing but obviously its something lol then il say sumthin or sumthin will happen or il cal later & hes all happy & telling me about the house wer gunna live in or how much he loves me & misses me i kno he does love me but its making me soooooo mad not understanding y he has to b so effing moody! eventually if i cant get it i dont kno how we will continue?

i’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now but i still dont understand him. i hate it because it just frustatrates me the way he is and i canmt change him. one minute he is happy and the next he is yelling at me about everything. he makes it seem like i do everything wrong. sometimes i dont even do anything honestly and he wont beleive me he will just say i do everything wrong as usual and then later he will give me a kiss or something. i dont understand. i wish someone could explain it to me because i cant even talk to him.i dont think he tries hard to keep our relatioinship happy. i think that if our relationship was to fall apart he wouldnt care. please if someone has any advice i really need it because not understanding is making me hate him.

we started counseling today. 2 weeks ago the last - almost year of my life with him- all came crashing down when i found out the truth about our so-called life together. we’ve both had it really hard—and i don’t think there are many other people on this earth that’ve had it as complicated as him. i’m trying to hard to be understanding. he pushes my buttons. it’s a test. even if he isn’t conscious of it.

counseling is helpful. i wish we didn’t have to wait another week and a half to go again. in the meantime i will try to deal with my pain without pushing him further away.

i know we are in this for the long hall now. i need him to be the man he wants to be and is trying to be—without all the issues and pain creating this hostility that i did not merit.

he just send message to me about love me!I can understand now my boy friend can not talk to me.But is okey because i know he really loves me and I LOVE HIM

sometimes i can not undestand what he is thinking about me ore our relationship?he can not talk to me ore he doesn’t want to talk!We are together for one year and start to lieve together for 2 months.i think he doesn’t want lieve together.he accepted because he scared to loose me.I am trying to talk whit him about us but he just saying “i am soory i can’t feel, i can think”.I don’t know what can i do?

I do not understand my boyfriend, men and women are so different and it is so hard to get inside his mind sometimes. I realise all our arguments stem from this – the more arguments we have the less love we have for each other – is this what ends relationships ?