stop being so jealous

Jealousy is my greatest flaw, and I get REALLY jealous. I don’t even want him having girls as friends, or him talking about his past, and he works a lot, and I can’t find a job, so I get jealous that he works with females, and sometimes he works late, and my gut always ruins everything, and I just don’t know what to do, I’m ruining a great relationship with my own insecurities, and it hurts, but I can’t control it.

I’m very jealous when it comes to other women. I was cheated on by my previous boyfriend and I have now found myself a wonderful man, we’re even getting married next summer.
But I’m very very jealous. I’m scared that I’ll get cheated on again even though I know he’s not like that, I’m scared someone will try to steal him away from me, because he is just so perfect to me.
I get really angry – even furious – when one of his exes invites him to a party, when he mentions their name,... even with girls he just kissed and never had a relationship with I get incredibly jealous. When there are girls around him I always feel like they are prettier and funnier and whatever… and I get jealous and bad tempered again…
This is a very unpleasant situation for him and for me, but I just can’t seem to help it. I’m trying Bach Blossoms but I’m not sure yet if they help. ..

and I do it to myself! I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me or hurt me that way! I hate it too. We see him glance at another girl, and we go mad! But remember we do it too! Not all guys are pigs girls. I am with you on this one but we will get through it :) Take some time to get to know how the male mind works. Even if he glances at a girl, it doesn’t mean he will risk what he has with you for her. Give him a chance :)

Sometimes I’m mean to my boyfriend because I get jealous, mostly when he mentions another girl. I HATE IT! I know for a fact he loves me & would never hurt me, but it’s so hard for me because I’ve been cheated on in EVERY past relationship I’ve had. I guess you can call me paranoid; but this is something I really need to work on if I want to continue to be in this relationship for a lifetime.

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and i knew from the first time i saw him that i was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I have not had very good relationships in the past, i have been used a lot when i was younger when drunk e.t.c. i know that he would never do anything to hurt me, and he would never cheat, but i cant help myself i am so horrible with him he cant even look at other good looking women i go mad. and i think i am going to push him to actually do something, and it breaks my heart i just cant help it. The thing is even though i am the way i am with him and obviosuly it causes arguments he is still so nice and kind to me it breaks my heart even more. Please could someone help!!!!

I been with my boyfriend for three years and i can’t trust him he has cheated on me 3 times that I found out. The first time I didn’t know about on the second time I caught him in his garage with friends and a girl on top of his lap sitting down. the third time was because I checked his email and seen he was talking and been going out with another girl yup call me stupid but I love him not only that I have cheated on him 4times but I’ve only kissed the guys one time. I know he loves me and I love him too but he does not know of any of the cheats that i have done. I always get jealous may b because i’m insecure he goes to school and has a friend thats a girl and i always get mad when i can hear her when I call him, when his phone rings I ask who is it who r u talking too, when he’s playing with his phone I think he i stexting girls I get bad impressions on anything he does everytime I call him the first thing I ask is where r u at? I know I need help but what do i do i think he’s further away from me know I think he’s tired Can some one help me????? I’m despreate for help

I get so jealous over stupid things. It’s time for me to grow out of that habit.

I get jelous my friends, they own things i will never. But this one is goina b hard. :D

I used to be such a jealous person….it was only through God that I learned how to get over it

I’ve always been jealous in all relationships, but this time I fell in love and my boyfriend is the kind of guy that doesn’t like questions or jealousy. I know that I over react even on small things, but I can’t stop it until I already feel misserable. Our relationship is getting worse everyday and he’s lost his patience. He says that he loves me but he can’t visualize a future with me. He doesn’t think I’m the right woman for him… I really need help