I find myself keeping quiet when certain people’s names are mentioned or when conversation is up and around I don’t comment all the time. I still don’t do what I want which is pause before answering any questions thrown at me. I want to play the answer in my head first so I can review my answer before it is said out loud. 1 month ago
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Long Ago when I was in my teens I stopped speaking for a good while. I would only answer questions directed at me or ask questions that needed to be answered like where is this? or that? without speaking or making conversation my voice softened which I liked. THINKING BEFORE I SPEAK is a difficult goal to complete but I know once I complete it I will be much more happier. It will be awkward for the humans around me since everyone is use to getting automatic responses. In my case I will literally have to pause for a minute before answering any question given to me. I know they will wonder why it takes me so long to answer but to bad. 2 months ago
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I Don’t Like speaking. I don’t like making conversation or being entered in conversation. The big issue is, In this world there are humans who love to talk. Humans that can’t live a day without making a conversation up even if it is with themselves. With that said I need to read up on conversational topics that I like and feel comfortable with. I also really need to always remember that every word that comes out my mouth can and will be repeated and manipulated to the hearer’s understanding or liking. This goal is going to take a while to complete. 3 months ago
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I definitely think I’ve improved on this goal since I first made it. I’ve started to exercise self-control and think whether I need to say something before I actually say it…for the most part.
I’m almost there. I just need to apply all this during the moments I’m angry or frustrated haha. 15 months ago
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I will achieve this eventually. 22 months ago
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