The easiest way to be happily married is put one another FIRST. Not after friends,family NO ONE! This is my second marriage and I vowed my husband & I would not make that mistake like in my first marriage. My husband made it very easy for me because I have always been first with him and it was natural for me. A couple of friends were lost and I was and am SO ok with it, those relatioships should have ended years ago, but I am now surrounded by like minded couples and it’s great !! I would scream this to every married couple as they are walking down the aisle !! My husband and I are thedefinition of what a team really is !! ( ; 17 months ago