Trust the universe

It’s funny how things are slowly coming together, and I still doubt myself. Because it is because there is nothing concrete—there are school prospects, housing prospects, even a job prospect. I can almost see a “package” of elements coming together for me to actually stay here.

And yet I wonder if this is the right thing to do. A part of me thinks staying here and following this set-up (which, again, is a prospect and not concrete) would be great, yet another part of me wants to break with everything and explore. It almost feels like as if I should break out from my comfort zone and go somewhere entirely different—like as if it my calling to pack up and go.

But why then are things coming together like they are, even in theory?

maybe it’s the stress of another set of exams headed my way, seeing my bank account dwindle, and being disappointed by my love life. i could find more things to mention here, but i don’t want to write myself into feeling more negative and overwhelmed than i already do at the surface.

there is just so much uncertainty to the future. it makes me nervous and it makes me wish my present were different, more secure.

maybe i need to visualize more. maybe i need to simplify my life for the winter, hibernate, re-evaluate.

or maybe it’s that i am thinking too much about the future. maybe i need to ground myself in the present more. the present is uncomfortable, but maybe that’s just my attitude problem. maybe some sleep will help.

and then there’s the idea that i should just relax and trust the universe. this lowness is just a perspective thing. i know that calmness is inside me. i can actually feel it a little but it’s as though my mind is dancing around it and getting weary.

sleep and some meditation. that’s my prescription.

this is key. but it ebbs and flows.

lately i’ve been giving in too often to sleepiness, laziness, and preoccupation with the day-to-day. but i keep checking in and so i haven’t drifted far enough to lose momentum. lots of motivation today, in fact, to stay focused on and active in my goals.

i want to do some kind of retreat or workshop this winter. something to keep me on track and help me stay there with more steadfastness. and really, i will need to stay focused and active now to be able to pull off a vacation like that in a couple of months.

can do. can do.

it’s my birthday tomorrow – er, today already, the 23rd of september, the day after equinox, the first full day of autumn. :)

i feel really good about this last year. i feel like i grew a lot. i definitely let go of a lot of fears. i realized that i am responsible for my own life and that i have the power to make or break it. i used to feel at the mercy of the universe, and that vulnerability made me fear the worst in life. my attitude was often so self-defeating. but that began to change last summer and when i hit 30 one year ago, i felt a solid shift. somehow it seemed natural to leave that confounded attitude and insecurity behind, like it belonged to my 20s but my 30s would not be interested. indeed, i began to really feel empowered by the universe. huge progress.

this past year i began to feel my anger and noticed my grudges. i lived with a triggering individual most of the year. my band broke up this past year and there were some difficult feelings there also, some sense of betrayal. i was keenly aware of these negative emotions as they arose and knew that something had to be done about them, but it wasn’t until the end of the year that i decided to really let go of all that negativity. it has only been about a month since, but the decision and the transformation has felt significant.

power and forgiveness. these themes must continue to be refined in this 31st year of mine. i think that one way to carry both of these themes to the next level will be to consciously grow in my kindness to others. i would like to be more giving. this includes smiling more often to extend a little positivity. sharing positivity will definitely help me to feel empowered in this world. it will help me connect with others more and tap more often and deeper into my compassion. i would like to be more considerate of others. this positive connection with others will definitely get the law of attraction moving in my favor.

kindness. of course.

as an extension of that i would also like to work on connecting not only beyond myself, but beyond humans. i want to feel a deeper connection with other species, with the elements, and with planets and stars. this will also take power and forgiveness to a deeper level. it will be a way to transcend my ego and tap into the strength and love and perspective of a universe greater than myself.

what an exciting 31st year i have to look forward to!

i basically lost my part-time job today. instead of regular hours, i’ll be on an as-needed project-based schedule. this likely means i’ll go from 15 hours a week to almost no hours a week.

i’m going to say this must be an opportunity of some sort. i’m not sure what, but i’m sure something better will come out of it. i just need to figure out what.

i wanted to join a particular professional association, knowing it to be an invaluable opportunity to network and possibly meet my future employer/partner. i asked a board member about joining and she said that each school would be picking out two student members to join for free. it would cost $250 otherwise, and really i thought i would pay to join it even if i didn’t get picked because it’s that full of opportunities. so i set my intention to get in one way or another.

the very next day (yesterday), a professor of mine sent me information about the association and who to contact to get on a lottery list of interested students. i sent in my request last night and immediately started imagining my name being pulled out of the hat. this morning, i got an email saying that my name was the first one drawn!

it just seems so right. maybe that’s why i was completely relaxed about it. i know this path is the right one for me and instances like this affirm it all the time. i’m so glad that i can see this. it makes me focused and proactive and completely on the road to success!

i had a nice time with a boy tonight, but i couldn’t really see the connection. he’s too young for me, i think. a cool person, but in a different place than i am. i don’t understand why i seem to attract younger men. maybe it’s just that i’m mostly around younger men, being a student and all. sigh. i was tempted to feel bad about myself and wonder if it will ever happen. fortunately, i felt no need to feel bad about myself. i know that i will find someone who would be a good match for me. i am sure that the universe has that set up in some way. i just need the patience. i’m certainly not very patient about it. really i should be and am working on myself right now. i’m changing. i’m wanting something different, and i haven’t quite figured it out yet. perhaps that’s why he hasn’t come into my life.

for safety & abundance.

Thank you!

I ask, dream, and think about everything that I want. Then I allow it come. I’ve noticied if I try to fight it, push it along, or make it happen, I inevitably screw it up. But once I let go, the things I wanted have started to fall into place ,seemingly on their own. No, I cannot lay out the begin picture of what everything will look like or how it will happen, but I don’t need to. I only need to see one step at a time, and that step will lead me to the next step and the next, and the next. This is how everything has begun to fall into place for me. The Universe is way smarter than I am, there’s no way I ever could have planned everything and made it happen on my own, so instead I trust.

I do feel sometimes that I am in the universe’s ashtray or forgotten drawer though. What is that I need to do now? Let go? I don’t know what to let go of, as I wrote here.