i know im not the first to have this problem, but that doesn’t make it easier. we have worked together for a long time and we get on amazingly but i wonder sometimes if there really is something between us ore if its just her good nature. aaghhh, i know what i have to do but i find it so difficult every time were together all i can think about is what to say and how i would say it. i don’t know why I’m writhing it here. i guess i just need someone else to tell me what to do, a guideline. i know this isn’t an original problem, but… fuck it il just do it. but how HOW. why cant things be easy. I know though, i know what the problem is but i just cant do it. i need help. i cant do this for my self. i need a fucking slap in the face, i need a push!
How to tell her how I feel
How I did it: We were talking on our way home, and I finally told her. She said yes, but then called me later on and said that she wasn't so sure about it and didn't think it would work out. We are still amazing friends, and nothing has changed.
Lessons & tips: Don't be afraid. If you guys are good enough friends, it'll all work out.
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I’m bisexual, I have been all my life… I’ve had crushes on girls but practically all of them have been straight and I knew they wouldn’t reciprocate so I just left it.
Now, I think I’ve fallen for my best friend. She’s openly gay so really, there shouldn’t be a problem… We’ve even kissed when we’ve been drunk, and she’s admitted to liking me… I don’t know why I can’t just come out and say “yeah, I like you too. I want to hold you in my arms so badly, I want to kiss you, I want to make love to you, I think you’re beautiful and amazing” but I just can’t.
I don’t know what it is… I think part of me thinks it’s wrong to have these kind of feelings for a member of the same sex. I guess I’ve been brought up to think that way.
I hate it…
I haven’t seen her in such a long time…we’re friends, but we only really hung out at school. now its summer, she’s in quebec…ugh…
Done this about 1.5year ago got whit here, she a good friend now, she was not the right one so left her. If i didn’t do it i would have never found out and be left whit a big open question
It’s worth it. If it’s bad luck, you can get over it sooner rather than later, and if it’s good luck, then good luck:)
It’s been way too long. She probably knows already. But that’s still not stopping me from stopping me. Then again, neither has the fact that she lives 1700 miles away, we meet once a year, and she’s got a boyfriend. I’m just glad there’s at least 31 other romantic bastards pulling for me. I’m certainly pulling for them.
This would be a problem.
She’s utterly gorgeous. And smart. And funny. And sometimes seeing her smile is the only reason I bother showing up at school. But let’s just say we’ve got some… differences. She’d never like me back. I still want to tell the truth though.
In a nutshell…..2 years ago this girl came to me with here feelings, she wanted to be more than friends. I wasn’t sure about it and basically put her down easy. Well now that I’ve known her for a lot longer, I kick myself harder each day that i rejected her. Now she has a boyfriend but things with us havent changed, we are really great friends and we flirt a ton and what not. Question: Despite her being taken, do i tell her my feelings or not? I really want to, but I also want to know your opinion. Thanks so much!
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“I'm in love with a girl who's engaged to someone else. I have been for over a year now. Do I tell her or walk away?”
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