be classy

class-y
adjective ( class-i-er , class-i-est ) informal stylish and sophisticated : the hotel is classy but relaxed

It’s a little hard for me to be modest in what I wear. First of all, I have large breasts so a shirt that another girl could wear and be fine, looks trashy on me. I try to wear pretty shirts and still be modest about it though. Also, some time I love the attention from guys that dressing provocatively brings, I need to stop this…

-walk away from drama
-don’t curse
-have good manners
-good posture
-having a strong vocabulary
-don’t correct others
-don’t gossip
-don’t try really hard to please others
-don’t use labels
-be modest
-dress modestly and be well groomed
-don’t follow trends
-don’t be desperate
-have dignity
-be wise
-be positive and flexible
-limit tattoos and body piercings

yea, i just decided that maybe this goal isnt really for me. I can be classy when needed but, I like to joke a lot and mostly i dont like to always dress nice and look prim and proper. I like to go out a day after getting drunk in the clothes that i passed out in and not brush my hair or teeth (gross, but thats me. take it or leave it) I’ve always been a tomboy so prim and proper just aint me.
plus i like pooop jokes….

My bf told me last night he thought I am classy.
I asked him if he had been reading my blog on here again. :)

I am going to go to the mall to try on this dress. I think it will work better than the pink.

Okay, so my sweetie invited me to go to his change of command thing. I have to find a dress to wear that is conservative and pretty but will make me look nice and reflect well on him, but of course that won’t make me look slutty. argh!! Such a difficult combination. It is in May and it is going to be HOT out. What about this dress? I like it, and I think it will be good for daytime, and I have pretty fair skin, and I think pink is a good color for me. But is it too dressy? argh!

Sometimes I’d rather be sassy than classy.
Is it possible to be classy AND sassy?

I don’t feel very classy today.

• being true to my word
• working hard & trying my best
• taking care of myself and those I love
• staying out of situations that make me feel bad
• staying away from people who make me feel bad
• not gossiping
• being true to myself

I reserve the right to add to this list later