Overcoming “practical” (non-dating singles) habits:
- If I see it, I fix it. I will see it many times…
- Remove the one greatest disturbance to the force every day (no, Darth would not shudder. A space station must be kept very clean to be healthy, but it also has the potential to become very dirty indeed). 4 months ago
I am not sure how people are wired, but the situation has nevertheless improved. A few habits need to be righted, some sorting out remains and some items need suitable storage (please define!).
The goal might then be considered nearly completed. Yet for ‘worthiness’, I also need to consider ‘appeal’. I may need to borrow a set of eyes. 7 months ago
I developed a weekly system. I broke my apt up into 5 areas. First I set a timer: I clean each area 5 mins & check it off a list. Then I set the timer again: clean each area 10 mins & check it off a list. Lastly I set the timer a final time: clean each area 15 mins & check it off a list. Done. The weekly system doesn’t always work, but it works often enough to keep the place sex-worthy. 12 months ago
There is no real zest into it for me, but it would still be a good idea. First, of course, taking care of the usual reservations. The necessity of drapings and soft furniture should perhaps be thought of later. 12 months ago
The last time I brought anybody home (for any purpose) was almost three years ago. It’s a first step. 19 months ago
