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Untitled 13 months ago

Its so hard to do this one cause you just want so much but yet fear it



Rejection 14 months ago

I want to over come my fear of rejection.The reason being is because I don’t want the fear of being rejection to stand in my way anymore



Untitled 16 months ago

it’s stopping me from doing a lot of things.



so... 19 months ago

i wouldnt say ive totally overcome my fear of rejection. but ive realized that over roughly the last year ive made HUGE progress in getting over my fear taking chances and putting myself out there like i never would have before. I put my heart on the line numerous times even after getting hurt because of someone i care about more then words can explain. and every step along the way i was terrified to be turned down and get hurt but iv taken my chances and risked so much and iv come to the point where i can say that even if things dont work out how i want, i did everything i could and took every chance i had available.

def worth it!



Untitled 21 months ago

Since i was a little girl my mom always used to say to me “What’s the worst thing that can happen? someone says ‘no’. well, that sucks but you move on and at least you tried”. Hearing her say that it would seem so simple but i still have always been terrified of being rejected and turned away by people. I’m always trying to speak my mind more often, to fear the reaction/rejection i might get from others and just do what makes me happy. Over time i have grown a lot and I am so proud of myself for the risks i have taken and the times i put myself out there. I haven’t always gotten the answer i was hoping for but i can at least be proud of myself for taking the chance. I still want to continue working on it, and hopefully at some point I’ll be able to just put myself out there and simply move on if I am turned down.



Untitled 23 months ago

if you dont try, you dont go anywhere. and i’d rather say “ok that was a deff no” than “what if i had…”



My Crush 2 years ago

I’m afraid I will never meet anyone and fall in love-I’m 17 and never had my 1st kiss, a boyfriend, nothing!

Will I ever get over this fear? I sure hope so! I know I will!!



I thing I got it, but Im still trying 2 years ago

I was rejected by my Mom and My Dad and couple of girls.
then I didnt do anything that would hurt me, than i realize that if i dont make a move nothing is going to happen now I talk more and I base my confidence not in how i look like or how much money i got, I based my confidence on the problems and experiences life has given me.

so i dont care if i get rejected is not going to be the first time nor the last

“Is not how far you go in life is how you get there that really matters”



Untitled 2 years ago

it comes with putting your ego aside, as well as knowing that no one worth spending time with would reject you outright.



Well... 2 years ago

I took this one off the list along with “tell him”. I suppose I overcame rejection when I built up the courage to say something, but I’m also learning from others how to accomplish this goal. It’s going to probably take my whole life, but this first step is a huge one.



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bex_troubledangel asks, “I dont fear a rejection of love.. I have a troubled teenagehood and there is one person at my college that I talk to, and she is a member of staff... and I am constantly afraid she will tell me I can't talk to her anymore...I hate it.. I really do!!”
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