im 17 and lost all my friends for diffrent reasons, they were not true friends anyways they are shalow. So i have to start over new and it sucks cause im so shy and insecure. im affraid people will be like whats wrong with that girl she never talks. and im affrad to go out because i feel like crap and im affraid that something bad might happen.
How to become more self-confident
How I did it: By doing the kind of things that I always wanted to do but never had the courage or tenacity to do before. i went on holiday to the netherlands by myself. i had sex for the first time. i quit uni knowing it wasn't what i wanted to do right now. i wear clothes that i didnt dare wear before cos i thought people might critisise me for them
Lessons & tips: be courageous. life is too short to wait until tomorrow to do that whole list of things on your 43 things. your fear threshold gets higher and higher the more you try
Resources: steve pavlina's blog helped
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ok, sooo i’m 21, and i basically have zero self-esteem or self-confidence. not exactly something i like saying about myself, but it’s true. I always feel socially awkward, ugly, and inferior. my friends all tell me i’m being ridiculous, but all i do is scrutinize all the things wrong with me. i hate my face, my smile, how serious i can be, the fact that i don’t read as much as i used to. i am always comparing myself to everyone else, i know it’s like the worst thing in the world to do, but i can’t help it. it’s just become a habit now. i just don’t know what to do and need to find something before things get worse.
it just happens but i don’t think you can go out there with this goal in mind and specifically accomplish it. just live your life and it happens. for me, going to college, living on my own and meeting new people just helped me become more self confident.
I believe I have become more self-confident. I am talking to a lot more people now, and I don’t get all scared when I’m talking to girls. I believe that my new job has helped me achieve this goal.
please i just want to become more self confident. i will try starting today. here is what i dislike about myself
1.self confident 2.bushy,thick hair 3.pudgy belly 4.glasses
5.pudgy belly and 6.my big pudgy belly!!!!
i’m not “fat” but i’m not truly confident about my weight
if i could change anythig about me..this would be it. i wouldn’t change my looks, i wouldn’t change my attitude, but i would change the way i see me. i always say, “i just need to get some gosh darn confidence.” people who don’t know me, think i have some, but i can put on a pretty good facade. i learned through the years. “never let them see you sweat.” it doesn’t matter how others see me though. all that matters is how i see myself, because i only answer to me at the end of the day. so, i’m gonna start doing things that i fear. because the only way you can grow and rebuild yourself is if you step outside of the box:)





