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Annie B is trying to work!

Getting there... 8 months ago

So beginning Monday I started a week’s cleansing of him…

It’s now Thursday and I haven’t said a word, there’s been no communication at all.

I’m happy!

I’ve gotta last until Monday then my reward is the new James Bond DVD…can’t wait!! :)



Annie B is trying to work!

Trying Very Very Hard 8 months ago

So there’s this band that I love and go to see obsessively and fanatically…when you love a band like I do, you get to know the guys not just in the band but the crew too. Well I’ve always had a thing for the band’s head of security/the lead singer’s bodyguard.

For the 12 or so times seeing the band, we’d kind of innocently flirted and stuff, but I was like ‘this is Security **’ [as he is known amongst the fans] – I have no chance. He was just a fantasy.

Until one day I end up in his hotel room, and so begins months and months of emailing everyday and becoming totally infatuated with him [we live 5000 miles and an ocean apart but hey…I wasn’t bothered.]

Anyway, long story short – I find out he is living with someone back in America, and she has found out about us and it’s all very very messy. What an asshole, right?

I know, I KNOW that we can never be together…it isn’t possible. But, I still can’t stop talking to him. He’s the first guy I ever fell in love with and I’m finding it hard to get over him. Every time I say ‘I’m never talking to you again’, about 2 days later I email him apologizing and groveling…it’s pathetic.

SO THIS IS MY GOAL – to stop talking to him. Because if I don’t, things will only get worse (for me) and I’ll just seem more and more pathetic and desperate in his eyes.

Wish me luck…



sometimes...its hard to say no 12 months ago

Everytime i break it off, it starts over…and worse. I dated a man 13 yrs my senior and never thought i cared much for him. I ended it on my birthday because he was so controling. Always worried and asking so many questions. After he almost instantly went back to his x, i figured..good, its over. And since then its been almost a year of us secretly texting and emailing. Wish i could just say NO..wish he could just say NO for me.



It's getting so much easier! 13 months ago

I’m so proud of myself. I saw him Friday and Saturday, and I barely said a word. I feel so good, it’s just crazy. I never imagined I would feel this way, so happy, because I didn’t talk to him. I think the spell has finally broken! I’m just going to keep this on the list for awhile, just so I don’t forget. But by the end of the year, this is one goal I WILL have accomplished!



Ugghh!!! I hate myself for wanting to talk to him! 13 months ago

When I talk to him, all it does is mess up my head. I don’t think it’ll be too hard to ignore him if I make a conscious effort. It really will make my world a lot better and clearer if he’s not a part of it.



alexshelley is going to turn it all around

Untitled 23 months ago

God I hate to love him and love to hate him… I need to get him out of my life for good.



hopefully forever? 23 months ago

starting on 12/22/07



i'm not sure it counts... 2 years ago

if its because he stopped talking to me? he stopped calling for a while and then when i finally tried, his number was disconnected.

i only say its not worth doing because its left completely open with no closure.



So many people! 2 years ago

There’s no reason to talk to a guy who’s had sex with 43 people when I’m trying to save myself for marriage. He is not someone I should be dating. And then, he tells me that he slept with a 44th person in basically the same sentance when he said he wanted to take me out on a date. He can’t try to get me to be his girlfriend and sleep with someone at the same time. I literally gagged at the though.

It’d be best to just stop talking to him. I told him I couldn’t talk to him anymore, but I doubt he believes me.



Untitled 3 years ago

I have got to stop talking to him. Every time I do—I break more of my heart. He just wants to be friends, and he is certainly not a friend…he has proven that to me.

I cannot accept his ‘promises’ right now .. what idiot in their right mind would? He broke multiple promises to me and though he is a great guy .. I can’t keep fogging my world up.

I’ve done this before - it didn’t last - I have to do better.



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