love

Cheer Up:
1.Notice when something seens a little off and ask her if she is alright. You care enough to ask
2.If do not wanna talk about it.. Give her some space
3.Give her your complete attention and try to be sympathetic even if you can’t relate.
Don’t accuse her of over reacting.
4.Now you know what’s up, try to make her laugh and smile. You know her favorite things and you know what’ll make her laugh.. it’s time to distract her.
5.Chocholate

TIPS：
1.Know her favourite song
2.Never tell her that you don’t like the things she does.
3.Always give her a smile, that will cheer her up.

STEPS:
1.Be confident. Good posture and body language
2.be funny. Situational humor better
3.connect with her . In commom.. reward her with a smile and a story of your own.
4.look and touch
5.show your interest
Best way to avoid the” friend trap”. After finding common interests, make your intention clear. Tell her you d like to take her out for coffee or dinner.. or whatever is appropriate for your age and inerests.

TIPS:
1.be honest and forthright
girls appreciate you telling them how you feel
2.do not tell friends secret or personal information about she tell you
For your knowlege only.
3.do not over compliment the girl
girl ll let you know within a short time if they are interested. if.. move on..
4.1 point for hug, 2 points for conversation, and 3 points for kiss try to get 26 points before you go on a date.

yeah, i think i should learn to love.
possible strategy:
love your friends.
i think i know how to do that now.
love your family.
i do not know how!! hi.. that should be changed…
love a girl.
i do nto know too.

Wikihow and ehow is great method to make yourself know how to do.

Warms: We should just love the one, the way, they want to be loved but not the way, we wanna be loved.

tips about everyone in your life:
a.Show affection.Yeah, in college, i just find this is a nice way to show that you love them. I d love to have a hug with my best friends much.
b.Spend time with them. I found this is the hardest thing for me to give my family and the girl i like. To friends, when we meet, we spend time together, but, to the other two, I should give me time to them actively.
c.everyone is differnt.
d.you can share your unconditional love with everyone crosses your path.

He’s coming here for the New Year’s (for 10 days) and I’m going there for a short while at the beginning of December. Conversations on Skype that last for hours. Life is good. ♥

I wrote this down a few years ago after reading it in one of my books, at the time I thought it was beautiful…....I still do !!

If you’re going to have a relationship do it right, Doing love right in a spiritual sense means to find the pure note of divine love in the symphony – or at times cacophony – of worldly relationships.
If you want to have a relationship, do it with spiritual awareness. See God in your companion, and love and worship each other in your hearts and souls. By staying centred in your souls through spiritual practice and awareness, you can help each other step by step – as you climb together, healing old wounds, each in your own way moving toward the eternal, absolute oneness of pure spirit. Anchored in your higher understanding and purity of feeling, you can grow together – with love, care, and the highest respect for each other.

love you

Sending this out, w/love to him, his family, friends, and our community.

For J
11/1/57 to 10/14/09

I stare out
at a fixed point
in the park,
where a restless wind
shuffles the fallen leaves
around the green.

My eyes are glazed
and slightly out of focus;
everything today is out of focus.

I don’t know what to do
with all these feelings yet.
I don’t even know their names;
they can not be defined.

The only things in focus
the only things clear
are that you shuffled
and paced thru those
leaves in the park
on restless days,
and that I knew your name.

My “happy place”
forged of metal
sweat
paint
and stone
stands still in time
more mausoleum and museum now
than gallery or portal.

What seems to all
a senseless act of violence
perpetrated against yourself
has begun a revolution.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ag8J2NMYmc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBHjuIYyCLM

(Two bands he liked a lot.)

I do this quite a lot, I should do it more and I aim to, it’s ongoing a work in progress & actually enhances your life so much because like the article says when you give Love you are tuning yourself into the vibe of Love, which is something I’ve experienced & believed for a long time now, I’ve seen people that I previously just did not get along with all of a sudden become friendlier in their attitude towards me because of this & I in my attitude towards them !!!

Abbreviated from an EzineArticle

Send Love In Any Situation

There is something you can do in every situation in life and that is sending Love. When you do this, especially in challenging situations, you are keeping your vibration high and raising the energy level of all those involved. When you send Love, you are thinking with your heart and when you do, you will always be guided to the highest outcome. As you go through your day and are confronted with others who might be struggling with their everyday problems, it is advisable not to get entangled in their mishagos, as they say in Yiddish.; instead, send them Love. Rather than confronting someone, send them Love.

In all difficult relationships with others, send them Love. Everyone does the best they can with what they have to work with, therefore allow that they are doing their best. More often than not it is your issue that you see in them, so look inside before judging the other person. Send Love to events that happened in the past and they will transform. When you send Love you are creating Love, tuning into the vibration of Love, therefore receiving Love and attracting Love based energy into your life. So start your day with Love, continue through your day with Love, and end your day with Love. When you do, Life is Good, All Is Well.

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.