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how could you be so heartless? 2 days ago

nope, not talking about the song. talking to myself.

compassion and understanding used to be my crowning qualities. what the fuck happened? i’ve become so callous and self-centered. if you ask me, i haven’t a single redeeming bone in my whole body. WHAT HAPPENED?

i need to be sensitive toward the needs of others, to get back to putting others first. i need to let people in and feel okay about being vulnerable. i need to learn to love again. i need to learn to love again.

but how do you learn to love?



maromera is learning to be strong

Love is... 5 days ago

Loving someone implies the desire of changing the world. You want to transform it into a place where you can cuddle, where you can be yourself, show your feelings, a place where life makes you smile. A place where there is time and space for dreaming, tickling, for endless conversations and caresses… a place where you can think of crazy plans and ideas and fight together for making them come true.



Scarlett has the mean reds

21 days 1 week ago

...and I’ll be on a plane to the UK. It’s hard to believe it has already been 2.5 months since we last saw each other in person. It’s a terribly long time, especially at the beginning of a relationship. Reunion will be blissful but also confusing in some respect – not that I doubt his feelings or mine, it will be weird to have the other person right there, so close when all you’ve learned to associate with this relationship is chats on skype and many text messages. Don’t get me wrong, I’m thrilled to see him and if it was possible, I’d have us be together all the time, all I’m saying is that it’ll be mind-boggling at first to have him next to me for real.



hailey pittman i want poeple to send me megges please can you and add

this is me 1 week ago

i want to be a girl that wants to have a boy friend i had one but i had to prack up with him so…...........can you go out with me.XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX



prince 1 week ago

sucessful



Untitled 2 weeks ago


HOW TO CHEER HER UP 2 weeks ago

Cheer Up:
1.Notice when something seens a little off and ask her if she is alright. You care enough to ask
2.If do not wanna talk about it.. Give her some space
3.Give her your complete attention and try to be sympathetic even if you can’t relate.
Don’t accuse her of over reacting.
4.Now you know what’s up, try to make her laugh and smile. You know her favorite things and you know what’ll make her laugh.. it’s time to distract her.
5.Chocholate

TIPS
1.Know her favourite song
2.Never tell her that you don’t like the things she does.
3.Always give her a smile, that will cheer her up.



ABOUT GETTING A GIRLFRIEND 3 weeks ago

STEPS:
1.Be confident. Good posture and body language
2.be funny. Situational humor better
3.connect with her . In commom.. reward her with a smile and a story of your own.
4.look and touch
5.show your interest
Best way to avoid the” friend trap”. After finding common interests, make your intention clear. Tell her you d like to take her out for coffee or dinner.. or whatever is appropriate for your age and inerests.

TIPS:
1.be honest and forthright
girls appreciate you telling them how you feel
2.do not tell friends secret or personal information about she tell you
For your knowlege only.
3.do not over compliment the girl
girl ll let you know within a short time if they are interested. if.. move on..
4.1 point for hug, 2 points for conversation, and 3 points for kiss try to get 26 points before you go on a date.



STRATEGY 3 weeks ago

yeah, i think i should learn to love.
possible strategy:
love your friends.
i think i know how to do that now.
love your family.
i do not know how!! hi.. that should be changed…
love a girl.
i do nto know too.


Wikihow and ehow is great method to make yourself know how to do.


Warms: We should just love the one, the way, they want to be loved but not the way, we wanna be loved.

tips about everyone in your life:
a.Show affection.Yeah, in college, i just find this is a nice way to show that you love them. I d love to have a hug with my best friends much.
b.Spend time with them. I found this is the hardest thing for me to give my family and the girl i like. To friends, when we meet, we spend time together, but, to the other two, I should give me time to them actively.
c.everyone is differnt.
d.you can share your unconditional love with everyone crosses your path.



Scarlett has the mean reds

You can close your eyes, it's all right 4 weeks ago

He’s coming here for the New Year’s (for 10 days) and I’m going there for a short while at the beginning of December. Conversations on Skype that last for hours. Life is good. ♥



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