Make a New BEST friend

Well, it would be nice. I mean, there’s never enough friendship to go around. :)

Some of ya’ll are soooo freakin depressing!lol GOsh! if it’s a friend you want just be YOURSELF! Be true to yourself….you don’t need a ton of friends to be happy …just one is a wonderful thing… In life you are only going to have maybe 2 or 3 BEST FRIENDS….thoes are the friends who are there for you and love you for your faults,and really care for you! If you go looking at everyone for that your going to be very disappointed….everyone’s not ment to be a Best friend…some are ment to be just a friend…some are even bad for you …and are fake…just pray to god…he will always listen and be your friend…pray to him for that special friend…he’ll make a way I promise…you’ve made a friend already with me…love ya’ll and don’t stress!!

for some reason latly eevrything has just been really working nicely
one of my friends that has been my friend for ever has become really close to me and we hang out all the time and i would call us the best of friends
and at my new job me and all the poele there get along really really well and have so much fun we hang out after work i would also say they are the best

i’ve realised as i was trying to find a new best friend that i already have good best friends even if they are far away. we cannot force it…best friends happen when they do. i’ve met some new people though and have been friendlier to other friends so maybe i’ll get more close to them. cant have enough friends right? but best friends are precious and whenever he or she comes i’ll be here. :)

lately i’ve been feeling lonely, like i’m not close to anyone. i realized it is because my best friends are far away. i have none near me so i have no one to tell secrets to, someone to hangout with all the time, someone who will understand and be there for me.

I consider this done.
The sad thing is, I make a new best friend, and she moves to Ohio to live in the cornfields.
I miss her.

I feel very depressed at the moment and I feel certain that this is partly because I am very lonely. My best and only “real friend” that I have ever had passed away back in 2000 and I have found it so hard to meet other people. It can be tough sometimes because obviously people make friends with others because they have a lot of similarities and therefore it is easy to be understood, at least I had that kind of friendship with my mate who is now passed. If I did’nt feel like explaining why I felt shit etc I never had to say much, she would just be there for me. I miss that so much. I am sure that there have been times when I just pushed people away for petty reasons, and I have a feeling that this a subconcious move to protect myself from being hurt and also so that no-one has to try and live up to my friend who passed. I find it very hard to solve my problems, they say that a problem shared is aproblem halved and this is very true. My grief still overcomes me six years after losing my best friend probably because I am finding it hard to build strong connections with others, most of the time I get people who are sympathetic to me, but it feels like nobody wants to help me pick up the pieces. I think that it is hard for people who have never lost anybody close to them to understand how deeply my loss effects me and that is what frustrates me sometimes. My partner offers me no comfort. I know that I should just get on with my life and I am trying, but not having any friends makes things all that much harder. I thought that I had made a friend, I helped her through a very difficult time in her life, but it seems now that she has everything under control she does’nt give crap. She wont sit down and let me pour my heart out and when I try to, she says that she has to go out. I think that she is being selfish and it makes me not want to help anybody anymore. I moved with my partner to a country town with my closest family members being nearly 300 kilometres away and at present I don’t have a car to drive and public transport is non-existent out here which makes me feel extremely isolated. I feel like I am spiralling into a deep depression and that frightens the hell out of me, as I am worried about my children watching on.How do you find a friend a true friend who’d drop almost everything to help a friend in need someone that accepts you exactly the way you are who has enough courage to give constructive criticism and who will just sit with you and let you cry all of your tears away. I am lost. So please if anybody reads this and thinks that they can offer me some guidence it would be so greatly appreciated.

i really want to make a best friend thats a boy
male friends are a lot better than female friends, well at least to me lately
a girl would be nice too
i just wish i had a BEST friend that i could have a really good bond with, like my friend kat has with her best friend.

new best friends > old shitty best friends.

I just started a new job in Tucson. There is a team of eight of us, and I swear, these people are my best friends already. These are the people who just automatically fall into the best friend category, who I’ve been looking for for ages! And the best thing is, they all feel the same. We’re all always saying ‘Wow, we’ve only known each other two weeks and we’re this close? Awesome!’