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12 months ago
Im not perfect, but I dont care.I just want to be ME…..........
How to stop caring what others think of me
It made me
Relieved 
"This is not easy, but worth the end result."
How I did it: I used to always care what everyone thought of me. Every time someone said something about my appearances or the way I did something I would want to cry. Finally I just started thinking about the good in me and why I did things the way I did. After a while I just stopped caring because others don't live my life or know my reasons.
Lessons & tips: Don't worry about what others think. As long as your not breaking the law or harming anyone, it's your life so LIVE IT!
Resources: I had to get help from a councilor to do it, but I probably could have done it without help.
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Very Hard
14 months ago
I found out that certain people have been bitching about me behind my back. It’s something that I always thought happened, (I mean they do it about everyone else) but to actually know hurts like hell. Constantly trying to put on a brave face and pretend that it’s not bothering me. Easier said then done!! :(
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18 months ago
I need to stop. I try so hard every day to look my best. Do things so others will accept me. Some people are just naturally beautiful and dont need time to perfect how they look. I try to look so good everyday and do things that look good and all i get is shot down with mean and rude comments. I try so hard every single day and i just dont measure up to peoples standards. I just feel not good enough for people. I want to wake up and not try so hard and walk into my life and not care if people say something or whisper. I want to just brush them off and still be happy and smile. I want to hear their rude gestures and comments and just smile at them and not feel ugly and feel the need to rush to a mirror. I want to hear their mean words and just grin at them and say thank you.
Why is this so difficult???
18 months ago
Steming from years of being hated at school just for being me I let the same pattern follow me into adult life. Why? Why do I care what people think of me? Why do I care what they think about the clothes I am wearing or what style my hair is. I am constantly looking for approval from others and its stupid!! It is!! Must learn to let the past go and start believing in myself more!!
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22 months ago
I have self-confidence, but I always worry what others will think of my clothes, my actions, my jokes, and everything else. I am too wrapped up in what others think to live truely and freely as myself, except when I am with family and select friends with whom I am completely comfortable.
