decide what to do with my life

I’m only 18, but this is what I think I’d like

I want a job that is exciting and challenging…not sure what yet
I’d like to spend a few years dating and going out with friends and at university
I’d like to let go of some of my inhibitions and live freely
I’d like to meet a man who truly truly loves me and I feel the same
I’d like to have children
I’d like a reasonable standard of living and a comfortable home
I’d like to develop my creativity and paint and sing more often
I’d like to do charity and volunteer work
I’d like a group of friends who are un judging and funny
I’d like to look good and dress fashionably, but realise that it’s not really that important

Haha, i kindof got started on my hopes and dreams there, I’m gonna stop … there is more.

I graduate high school next year. life would be so much easier if i had a uni course i wanted to do but i am clueless. All my friends have made their decisions and want to be doctors and teachers and accountants and such. i am not ready to pick something cuz i find it all mediocre i want to aim for fame fortune and adventure. does that just make me naive?

I’m student atm, and there’s no real hurry for me to decide anything, but I would like to have at least some sort of idea about what I want to do.

Time to make hay while the sun shines.

I would like to be an anchorwoman or an eccentric millionaire

I have been through relationship after relationship where guys have treat me bad. They always promise me the world and then act really selfishly in the end. i always become jelous of their freedom while i struggle with my problems. At the moment i am with a guy who i dont know if i should be with anymore, he always lets me down and just doesnt act like he cares. I love him and he gets annoyed when i try to talk to him about how i feel, he says i should believe him when he tells me he loves me but i dont feel the love so how can i believe it.
When things are good they are great but we have some mad arguements where we both say awful things to hurt each other.
He annoys me how he always wants to get stoned and how he is a different person when hes with his friends.
I just dont know what to do anymore i love him but sometimes it feels as if its just not worth it anymore.
Im also feeling really confused about where my life is going im doing a degree in counselling studies which does not result in me becoming a counsellor without taking a masters. Im unsure of which masters to do, im interested in art therapy but most courses need previous art qualifications!
If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated!
thanks
x

I don’t have to decide it all right now. I just need to figure out where I’d like to be in six months, try that, and then see if it worked and where I’d like to go from there.

Obviously some long-term goals would be a good idea too…

Hmmmm. Im only 13 things but I act I would say mature for my young age. I’ve been told by people around me that this period of my life has been hardest especially for my generation due to the political views, the careless acts of people, and the world in perish. We need to realize what we are doing before we are screwed forever. As a teen this is my time of finding myself and my future. A few things piled up on my self are…. school work, my girlfriend, my best friends, and the way I look to other people. I try to stop these bad habits but they disobey my orders to cease themselves and keep going on… My school has recently added 10 more standards for us. They have also discontinued the highschool clases for the 8th graders which I will be next year. Teachers every year are either getting more attitudes or are either caring less. I need to open my eyes and smell the roses that are really starting to smell like feces. That’s life.

I wanted to be a astronaut, but mom doesn’t want me more than 12,000,000 miles away from her at one time. I wanted to be an architect but I can’t afford to make that unless I make all scholar lists (Like my GF will…), I was going to go into heavy commercial building but I am a acrophobic. I would love to cook! I can do all of those things above. People tell me I should go into the computer field because of my knowledge. I DONT WANT TOO!

I can do all these things:
~Cook Great Meals
~Design Great Buildings
~Build Large Projects
~Run Resturants
~Solve huge scientfic problems
~And fix computers for days

Im the kind of person that makes people smile and thats what I don’t want to do. I am a great dancer but am embarassed by what people think and at party’s end up doing funny dances making everyone laugh and i’m usually the life of the party.

I want to open a resturant and marry one day and have two children. This is all I have to say…

But I’m thinking that flaking out and leaving the country for a while would probably not be a bad idea.

After splitting up, quitting my job, and moving home, I’ll be delighted to live somewhere with a cat again. Then I might spend a month or two on vacation (as cheaply as possible).

But the part of me that needs security really wants to figure out a life plan and a career objective.

Then I’ve got to figure out my issues and get to a point where I won’t run the next one off.