Garbage.
4 hours ago
Since promises were broken on his end, this phone is going in the trashy trash.
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How to get over him
It made me
 "It was incredibly hard but I'm a much stronger person for it."
How I did it: Time was really the only thing that helped, which was just horrible and made me feel totally helpless. In the end, it was important that I let myself feel pain because it was what needed to happen before I could get over it. I still think about us sometimes, but I'm good and happy again.
Lessons & tips: Just let time heal you. It's horrible to hear, but it's true.
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It made me
Whole Again.
How I did it: Stayed away from him. Didnt sleep with him....as much. lol. Found other things to do with my life. Time helped a lot tho. And I wrote a lot. Writing is therapeutic. Just made myself too busy to be stuck on him. DIDNT LISTEN TO SAPPY LOVE SONGS! All of my loving friends and family, I transferred that love i had for him onto them. Read how I did it…
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shout hurray!!! 
How I did it: Getting over someone leaves you with a feeling of emptiness, feels like a void is there where there used to be a relationship.I know that I should fill up that void to be able to feel like myself again. I began to make some changes with myself first...I thought it was necessary to cut all ties with him and to do that, I did not go with our common friends anymore. It was quite hard. I have tried to keep them, but every time I do, I keep co… Read how I did it…
It made me
not sure yet 
How I did it: It just kind of happened :)I know I'm not completely done with the whole "getting over him" thing, I've felt like this once or twice before and then fell right back to square one.But I actually feel confident this time that I'm moving on. When his msn icon flashes up, I still get butterflies, but at least I dont stare at his window for half an hour, praying for him to talk to me.aaaaaand! I'm starting to have feelings for other guys!… Read how I did it…
It made me
amazed
How I did it: How did I do it? I can't say that i had a particular method...I just let it eat at me and then I guess it got full :)OK seriously though, my experience was no harder and no wierder than anyone else's. Everyone just likes to dwell in the belief that they're going through the unimaginable...but truth be told...you're not the first and won't be the last...it'll go away...it always does.And when you're free of it all, the denial, the anger, t… Read how I did it…
It made me
Relieved
How I did it: ... the best way to get over him is to get under someone else! I mean it! If I were still with THAT loser, how would I have found the guy I'm getting married to?? Read how I did it…
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Why.
17 hours ago
Why would you send me those links that made me so sad and nostalgic. I broke down and cried. Just started bawling right in front of my dad. It was like salt in the largest open wound. Then to say the things you said after those type of songs?
I just CAN NOT WAIT for the day when I am healed. Can not wait.
Can’t wait for the day when hearing from you doesn’t fill me with dread, and sadness. When seeing your name pop up doesn’t fill my entire body with that horrible intense feeling I felt today. When I can listen to any song I want.
Goddammit….I just want to void to close up now.
omgkatrina is being very bored
Is it...working?
22 hours ago
I feel like I’m back t square one with this. My 11:11 wish made a difference for, like, a day. It still is making a difference…along with something else. Anyways, my class has changed seating and I sit very close to him. In front almost. Ew.
Weltschmerzgirl new moments
Untitled
2 days ago
I don’t want to get over you. I guess I could take
a sleeping pill and sleep at will and not have to
go through what I go through. I guess I should take
Prozac, right, and just smile all night at somebody new,
Somebody not too bright but sweet and kind who would
try to get you off my mind. I could leave this agony behind
which is just what I’d do if I wanted to, but I don’t
want to get over you cause I don’t want to get over love.
I could listen to my therapist, pretend you don’t exist
and not have to dream of what I dream of; I could listen
to all my friends and go out again and pretend it’s enough,
or I could make a career of being blue—I could dress
in black and read Camus, smoke clove cigarettes and drink
vermouth like I was 17 that would be a scream but I
don’t want to get over you.
You
2 days ago
have successfully instilled fear in me, and I know that it’s not going to go away until I am completely over you, and come to the realization that you can’t do anything to hurt me anymore.
Untitled
4 days ago
i just want this nightmare to end. this endless circle. i gain a little strength, i dont contact him. he decides to contact me. i fall flat on my face again. he tells me not to contact him again. i start from 1 again. why cant i just let this go for goodnesssake
omgkatrina is being very bored
My 11:11 wish
6 days ago
2 days ago on November 11 (11.11) I made an 11:11 wish. I know, I know. It’s juvenile, but who cares? I’m only thirteen! Well anyways, I was wondering ALL day what to wish for because it had to be something BIG and important, since it would be an 11:11 wish on 11.11….you can stop rolling your eyes now.
So then I finally thought of what I would wish for. Actually, I had two possibilities for what I would wish for (brace yourselves)-For him to like me, or for me to get over him. I decided to make my wish based on what song started playing on my iPod when it turned 11:11. If one of my gushy love songs started playing, I’d wish for him to like me, and if a “getting over you” song played, I’d wish for me to get over him.
Well there I was just counting down the minutes, anxious to see which song would play and then suddenly the alarm on my iPod went off and the familiar beginning of 1901 by Phoenix started playing. Which didn’t apply to “getting over you” or gushy love songs.
And that’s when my favorite part of the song started and I realized that I would have to decide what to wish for by myself. A
Then, without even thinking I wished to just get over him. I repeated my wish about 3 times before 11:11 was over, and I swear, the second I decided to make that wish, I felt so…amazing. 1901 was blaring loudly in my ears and I just felt like I could do anything. I was untouchable at that moment, and I really really thought that I could actually do it. That I could actually stop liking him.
And you know what? I honestly think this is a turning point for me. It’s been two days since I made that wish, and my eyes will still occasionally look over in his direction. I still think his eyes are the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen. His hair still sits perfectly combed and clean on his head, and yet there’s something different that I can’t exactly explain, and I think that’s a good thing :)
StayRain La-De-Da
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1 week ago
It’s so hard to explain. Like, I see him everyday and it’s awkward because we don’t talk at all anymore. I’m so incredibly happy with my boyfriend now, but for some reason he still affects me. Like I can’t let go of all the things he did.
It isn’t that I love him, or want him. I resent him. I really want to rid myself of this.
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“Guess what? "Getting back" with my ex turned out to be a mistake, but I've made the mistake now and he's my ex again. I won't do it again. It just hurts. Has anyone else been in this situation?”
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OasisOfCalm asks,
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OasisOfCalm asks,
“I hear it a lot, I'm sure everyone does but I've never asked why, yet I don't know the reason. Why no contact for awhile? It's so hard...”
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OasisOfCalm asks,
“Everything makes me think of him, I miss the fun we had together, I feel so sad. What do I do?”
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OasisOfCalm asks,
“I didn't think it could possibly get any worse, but it has BIG STYLE. The new guy I was seeing who I thought was nice said it's over. I'm so incredibly hurt, how can I have to get over TWO hims? This sucks :-( I've been crying so much and I feel lost”
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OasisOfCalm asks,
“How do you get over the fixation? I think I probably am (basically) over 'him', it's just like some weird drug that... I still think about, even though I don't want it. What do I do?”
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OasisOfCalm asks,
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