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Splat!  — 1 day ago

Kind of feel like a bug that has just hit a windshield. I know that if I call James it will not be pretty. Oftentimes our conversations just made me feel like SHIT but, I feel like I need to know that it is truly over so that I can get on with my life. I guess I am just a glutton for punishment and, it gives me a perverse pleasure pouring salt into my wounds.

week 1  — 1 day ago

so i’m down to my first week of him not calling me. its really not as bad as I thought it would be. I’m still alive, sometimes I get lost in my thoughts, but nothing major. I’m not thinking of dating anybody else at this point. I’m still wallowing in my misery. one thing i’ve learned through this is that pain is good. you need to feel it once in a while to feel alive. i’ve been in and out of relationships since i was 16 and havent stopped once to relish being single till now. i just turned 27. i hate feeling lonely and this is going to take a lot of getting used to (sleeping alone, eating dinner alone, watching tv with nobody to trash cheesy actors with), but i know i can do it. i don’t hate him anymore. but i miss him terribly. the only thing that keeps me from calling him is the thought that he doesn’t even bother to call me, ergo he has moved on and so should I. ouch.

road2recovery is getting there..

Untitled  — 2 days ago

ok so i have only known this guy for about a month and i dont know why but i feel like i fell really hard for him. i mean is it possible to feel so strongly about someone u barely know? so we both liked eschother and then next minute he starts dating someone esle.. i dont know why but it really crushed me :(

i want to get over it but at the same time i feel like i cant give up on him :( i dont know what to do??

So  — 2 days ago

So I’ve Liked this boy for very close to a year now. We kinda had a thing in the beginning, not going out nor nothing to special. Just A lot of Flirting and we both knew we liked each other. Well Just all of a sudden he started to like this other girl, [Who is now, but wasn’t at the time, one of my best friends] But they’re over now as well. Him and his friends are just now starting to hang out with me again. But also with one of my best friends. And i’m afraid they’re gonna go out again. But Still after all this i’m STILL not over him. Is they’re anyone who can and is willing to help me? PLEASE!

Untitled  — 2 days ago

Apparently, I got over one, just in time so that I can get over another! Ha! Life is funny.

progress  — 2 days ago

last night i had the worst case of withdrawal ever! i had to literally call all my friends on my phone list to keep myself from calling him. pathetic, i know, but whatever works, right? my friend came over late last night to smoke some cigs, and listen to me pour my heart out. he was a sight for sore eyes. i really needed a friend last night. it was as if my friend felt that i was in the brink of desperation, he called me at the right time, just when i was about to place my call to my ex. overall, i’m doing pretty good, feeling better, and looking forward to a full recovery.

Untitled  — 3 days ago

im getting closer to this. its such a self esteem thing with me.
when im feeling better about myself, he wont affect me as much.

Aaand re-opened  — 3 days ago

This is ridiculous. I keep going back and forth. But now, I know for sure that I need to get over him. I’m actually a bit relieved, now I can focus on more important things.

malcolmontgomery is thinking

it hard  — 3 days ago

Worth doing!

takes time.

delete everything that reminds you of him, pictures, things, memories, those only make things worse.

dont let him have the power to feel like he is still in control of your emotions.

getting better  — 3 days ago

Woke up feeling a little bit better. I’ve been keeping myself distracted by redecorating my apartment. Occassionally I catch myself thinking about him, but I guess thats fine as long as I don’t give in and call. I was so lonely last night I felt like just curling up in a ball…. but I survived. No relapses, I just allowed myself to feel the pain.

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OasisOfCalm asks, “What are some ways of getting over them, or what are some things to do to help while getting over them?”
— 1 month ago


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brenmarie23 asks, “he says he still loves me an wants 2 b friends.he wanted 2 end on a good note.everything was perfect,never did he show a sign of wanted out.Now my best guyfriends say he may just b scared cause things r gettin serious.Should I still wait?”
— 3 months ago


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EllieBeauty asks, “He was my best friend for four years before we dated and I want to still be his friend and he wants to be mine but he seems to want to do that only by pretending we had never dated. That none of it happened. How the hell am I supposed to do that?”
— 4 months ago


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grace892 asks, “My ex has a new gf now. He's still calls me almost everyday and chat as a friend. I always tell myself not to pick up his calls, but sometimes i do. And when i do, it reminds me of our past. How do i get over him?”
— 1 year ago


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Marcea asks, “Is it fair that he can say he loves me and tell me wonderful things and act like the sweetest guy ever, then the next week drop me on the floor because he realizes it wouldnt work out, knowing he knew that the whole time?”
— 1 year ago


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mayaRox asks, “He told me that he really cares about me but I'm too far away. Should I move closer to see if it works out?”
— 1 year ago


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spotlessmind asks, “my best guy friend. met him 4 years ago. like him first time i saw him. he has a girlfriend. i want to rip her hair off. what more can i say?”
— 1 year ago


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bballbrunette064 asks, “the guy i like ,ok luv, doesnt feel the same about me. i want 2 get ovr him but cant since my locker is right by his. help! (im 13)”
— 1 year ago


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montyollie asks, “Just when I think I'm over him, I see him, and I'm not. I've tried every trick in the book and it's been years! I think I need to start over. What is step one to getting over him???”
— 1 year ago


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jessicavogue asks, “am i able to move on without thinking of him when im with someone else? because im scared im going to find a greater guy & still be hooked on the original one :[”
— 2 years ago


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