see the best in people

I think it’s natural that people look for themselves in other people. That is, we look for the qualities we attribute to ourselves in other people. When we focus on the good qualities of people, we are affirming our positive self perception. Seeing the best in people should be natural for people who have a healthy self image. Remember: What we focus on Expands. In that same way, we may be able to cultivate a better self image when we focus on the best qualities of others. Just a thought.