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1 day ago
I want to find someone who makes me feel secure. I don’t want to have to support anybody. I want a 50/50 relationship. I want to be in love again.
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How to find my soulmate
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 "...He's the love of my life and will always be."
How I did it: My soulmate, my best friend. I will not marry him nor love him as a husband or a boyfriend but as a brother. A lot of people consider a soulmate being the person you could be with the rest of your life. That is true, but you're not always forced to do so by marrying that person. We could be a couple, but doing that would destroy everything, I think. It would lose all its peculiar effect. And yes, he's the love of my life and will always be. I'm pretty sure that the reason why there will be no one I could love more than him is because we will always be friends. Being his girlfriend or partner would make me love him less after some time. Lessons & tips: “Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.”
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How I did it: I was 17 when we met, and I still remember the first time we spoke on the phone. We were pals right away, got engaged a couple years later, married a few years after that, and divorced after four years. We're still the best of friends; we're truly an Air sign combination of Aquarius-Gemini that works best under platonic circumstances. I love her dearly and know that we'll be there for each other, no matter what. Don't ask me how I know th… Read how I did it…
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2 days ago
Now that I’ve done some growing up, I’ve written down exactly the kind of guy I want so that I’ll know him when I see him! I’m not settling for less than exactly what I deserve anymore, I’m done letting men take advantage of my loving and generous nature because my time’s too precious to waste on idiots!
I just want to find a pure kind of love, I want to be in a relationship where it comes naturally for us to love eachother selflessly, to watch out for eachother, to harbor no jealousy or resentments, where we both can live as equals. I know that kind of love exists SOMEWHERE in the universe!
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1 week ago
i found lots on myspace again and online sites then have to meet up this one still ok charles w. and then others like dhan b. so anyway got a pitcure but didnt save it of one then they changed photo agian. so anyway love meeting up from online and going on dates etc. so hope my first one is with those ones i want to meet yet we chat or email everyday text or emails etc. the one in the photo is randy same as my dads name funny. in everret wa he could be the one to?
so odd DX Father, Father, Father help us. Send some guidance from above.
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3 weeks ago
He’s out there somewhere… and I’m positive about who it is :D
“Cause nobody wants to be the last one left, and everyone wants to feel like someone cares. Someone to love with my life in their hands. There’s gotta be somebody for me out there…” -Nickelback
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3 weeks ago
I joined eharmony because I got a 3 month membership for $40. Let’s see what happens.
I don’t try to look. I’d much rather wait to be found, but I’ve been waiting for over three years for something new, something different, something right, something meaningful and it hasn’t happened.
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3 weeks ago
I hope to find my soul mate and just feel complete…and more…to infinity…
find my soulmate
4 weeks ago
Everyone wants to find their soulmate. It’s not an unnatural thing to want to have something in common with someone.
hmm….it’s kind of like a case of someday my prince will come?
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I’m getting tired of looking. I’m tired of waiting + hoping. I know people will say to me “Oh, you’re young, you’ll find someone!” But they just don’t get it. I cannot find a guy who would be attracted to me. I’m always the mate. The casual acquaintance. I’ve put on makeup. Taken off makeup. Gained weight. Lost weight. Hidden away. Been the life of the metaphorical party. Nothing seems to work. Maybe I’m setting my expectations too high. All I want is someone kind, funny, who likes reading, who looks sort of cute. I didn’t think that was too much to ask.
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1 month ago
I think age is just a number. Sometimes life experiences mature us at a much more rapid rate than years. One of my friends 49years old currently dating a man at www.MeetBoomer.com , who is 36 years my junior but he makes me laugh, feel safe, respected and loved. Isn’t that what we all really want? Who’s to say whether it’s right or wrong? If I were male and had a much younger woman, everyone would chuckle and give me a big thumbs up—Why should women be any different?
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morning glory asks,
“If I am not satisfied with my surroundings and myself how come I can think of God and merging myself into him.Is it not escapism?”
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morning glory asks,
“I tried hard to solve thir riddle..its hard to believe..is there any thing like soulmate or its just another illusory thing..?”
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“I found my soulmate and i know this because he is the only one i've ever had a conversation with that is a guy and i only saw him once. what should i do? wait for him? find someone else? i need help”
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“It is hard to be patient when you are lonely. What would you suggest?”
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jazzdrummer asks,
“Do you think there is one soulmate for each person? What if that person isn't available? Do you settle? Wait? Sometimes I think I already know who that person is and I missed the boat.”
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peanuts330 asks,
“Have had a few relationships. Some good some bad. However, I have yet to meet the man that possesses the qualities I seek. I'm loyal and honest, but these two have taken me no where. What am I lacking?”
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