After a long time away from this site, I read this goal and asked myself if it was completed…
Rejection hurts, a lot, the selfconfidence dies, and there is that permanent “Why?” smashing the head.
But the is that saying…part of being wise is to accept when there are things we cannot change…”things” like “persons that we liked to have in our lives”
Friends follow different paths
That person that takes your heart by assault may never want to retorn to the crime scene
But as they go out, someone will come in
This is a lesson that hurts, and will hurt many times in the futur (I’m sure), but somehow, with the time passing by, it starts healing quiker and the pain is more calm. 1 month ago
This is a painful, but very liberating lesson… 1 month ago
Stay away from those who make you feel…
-depressed
-angry
-inadequate
-criticized
-like your ideas are dumb, impossible, crazy
-that you cannot achieve your goals
-like a joke, someone who can’t be taken seriously
Get closer to people who make you feel…
-great
-happy to see them
-like you can acheieve and overcome challenges
-supported and nurtured
-inspire new ideas and directions 1 month ago
-some things are just unrealistic to accomplish
-leaving a relationship is sometimes the best way to protect and nourish oneself
-rise above what makes you crazy. the best revenge is ignoring somethhing and moving on.
-give yourself perspective on a situation by giving yourself distance from it.
-you get to exhibit control and wise decision-making 1 month ago
I am actively working on this and getting better at it. 9 months ago
