eliminate toxic people from my life

They are all around me, bringing me down. It makes me sick but I feel powerless against it all.

even if it hurts, I have to get rid of someone I know will never benefit me. but I can’t keep giving an effort on someone qho treats me good only when they choose to.

I can’t wait until I can check this off my list.

deleted my myspace. it hit me…...everyone i have on my myspace is from my school…..and than..it hit me again…..i dont like the people in my schoooool. lol

ah , 3 more month until graduation [:

i had to lose everything to do it, but it was worth it.

Looks like the people I was too chicken to drop out of my life myself, did it for me; in a way, proving that they were not the type of people I need in my life. It’s as if I’m so focused on attracting positivity into my life that the negative is being repelled in one way or another. Though it still stings a bit with how they’ve taken themselves out of my life, I have to look at that as just a reiteration that they were indeed toxic and do not fit into the type of life or vibe that I’m surrounding myself with now. Good riddance!

I used to associate with a lot of drug users, and heavy drinkers. These people would steal from me and treat me badly all the time. Not true friends I could tell anything to.I had a horrible car accident and almost lost my life. It changed everything. I moved from a small dead end town and out to the city. Some followed and just brought along thier baggage. Some still phoned constantly trying to borrow money. I just got fed up and sat down with thoes near and called thoes who were far and just said straight out I dont think it is in my best intrest for U to be a part of my life anymore. I need a serious change and this drinking and such isnt doing it for me. I want to be around more positive people and your just going to have accept the fact that we are two differnet people now and we are on seperate paths. Some were angry others were hur and most just didnt give a shit….but I wouldnt be where I am today if I didnt do it!

I have a friend that constantly is jealous and spreading lies about me and my family. Her husband is actually the root cause of this. I’m done with them and will still run into them at various group functions, but starting anew.

I am distancing myself from her to get my sanity back. I have spent too much time thinking about her crazy actions and I realize it’s unhealthy. I can’t make any rationality for her craziness, and I shouldn’t.

So wish me luck. It’s been a couple weeks now and it’s getting better everyday.

I pretty much have eliminated the toxic people from my life that I can. If people make me feel bad I show them the door no ifs ands or buts.
If I can keep this up for a while maybe six months I will consider it done and remove from my list.

My mom stopped by my house while I was gone. She then phoned to tell me how she started my house for me. Then she told me that on Saturdays from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. she’s going to come down to help me clean my house. I told her to leave things alone and she kept saying, “You have to start cleaning this every week…” and I kindly told her (again) that my husband and I are planning to get rid of some things and do a deep cleaning in August. Still, she repeated herself, “No, you need to work on this now and you need to work on it everyday because that’s how I keep my house clean.”

That’s when I interrupted her to say, “Well, you can do that in YOUR house and I’m going to do what I want in MY house.”

Later I called my friend who was too busy at a baseball game to talk so she said she’s call me back. She never did.

How do you eliminate your friend’s husband without eliminating your friend. She can’t go anywhere without him! I can only take him in small doses and even then I’m drained and annoyed from being disrespected the whole time(but, all out of love of course :/<—his words)