...a Birthday Goal?
...attending a wedding goal?
...any other goal not mentioned here?
I curently have 36 things on my 43 things list and more than 25 of those are beleated birthday goals that I have not repsonded to (and may not respond till six months or more from now.) I have a hard time refusing invitations because I don’t want to make anyone uneasy. I still have ones I haven’t repsonded to because today I compelted 6-7 of them and received 6-7 back.
One idea I had was to just tell people, “Sorry I can’t do this, it’s driving me insane…I love the person the birthday goal (or wedding goal, or cheer bomb goal) but 43 Things does not have a good system to remind me of sending a comment. They do but I don’t like it why? Because I have to open up an email that tells me you have joined this team goal “how’s it going?” It’s going like CRAP!
Face book seems to have a better way. They have a real calendar with boxes and Sunday-Saturday on top, they have a selection of cards you can send to your face book members, the only problem is many of those past members have left in droves of 10,000’s. last month and the month before. Why? You tell me.
Some people tell me to just tell them, “I refuse to join the goal…” I can understand their reasons.
How do you do it? How can you keep responding to birthday goals, send them images and still keep your sanity? Help, please.
Maybe I could just tell those people who want to invite me to a birthday, cheer bomb, wedding, holiday for Rumpus Day goal to just
1)send me an 43 things email with the information of the person, link to their website and date and then
2)I can deal with it my own way instead of
3)having to close down or complete one of my already full 43 things on my list to accept your goal instead? You think?
FYI-Also, Internet Wimplorer just frooze my screen as I tried to save my last entry, when in fact 43 things did four times, so I had to delete the other 3, thanks Internet Wimplorer. I will still stay with AOL you can just go back to Bill’s House and rest now.