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redashton is taking life one step at a time.

the dreadful cure 11 months ago

i wanted to but apparently my (now ex) was not too keen on it. we’ve been together for four fucking years, only to have her throw a curve at me and told us we were over last december. what a way to end the year, with a fucking bang. it’s true that long distance relationships are hard but it’s not like she was the only one suffering from it. she said that she could not take any more of the non-relationship that we were in. so the past four years had been a ‘non-relationship’ in her head. fucking brilliant! she goes on to say that she didn’t want to hurt me and she’s hurt as well. all i heard in my head was excuses and more excuses. she’s tired of trying to make us work out. so basically she gave up on us, while i’d been trying my damn hardest to get us together. it was so tough to try to build something together, only to have your partner sabotage it for you. at one point she says yes, and then she changes her mind faster than a speeding bullet and says no. it is frustrating to be with someone who doesn’t really know what they want in life but only thing they know is that they don’t want you. gosh, i’ve never been so heart broken before. i could write a long entry on how this whole ordeal has made my life a complete mess but that would be boring. all i can say is that for the time being i’m still very much hurt but over the fact that she’s gone. a part of me now realises that our road would be even tougher ahead because i’ve always known what i want and she doesn’t, so we’d be butting heads along the way. even if we ever get together again, i’ve lost faith in someone who has a history of pulling out when the going gets tough. so i should say thank you to her for curing me of my ridiculous obsession with love. maybe love is not everything. maybe love cannot be held on to.maybe it’s not worth the trouble.

then again, above all things in the world i believe in love. it is the most wonderful thing in the world. it’s a shame that she doesn’t believe in it for love cannot live in someone that doesn’t believe in it. maybe the next time i fall in love, i’d sent her a note. as her so called cure was not strong enough to resist love. just maybe…we shall see.



Untitled 11 months ago

A couple days ago two of our good friends helped us move over my girlfriend’s very heavy but extremely nice furniture into my place. I hope that our new arrangement will help us both monetarily and to grow in our relationship.



doubleplusgood is freezing

less than three 14 months ago

i would like for this to happen, but i don’t know if it will. only time will tell.



Erik Karlsson has some big plans

Found an apartment! 17 months ago

On the 1st of September it’s time to move into our new apartment here in Umeå! I’m excited :D
My girlfriend won’t come to Sweden until Sep 20th, so I’ll live alone for the first couple of weeks, but that’s alright. Maybe I’ll find some nice furniture :)



Erik Karlsson has some big plans

Looking for apartments 20 months ago

At the moment, I’m looking around to see what kinds of apartments that are available in Umeå. I think a place with two rooms will be sufficient for us. They come around at 4,000 SEK/month, which is quite alright. I’m not signing up for one yet though, as it is still a couple of months ‘til my girlfriend moves here.



Erik Karlsson has some big plans

Untitled 22 months ago

My girlfriend will move in with me in Umeå in September this year. I’m so excited! :D



Untitled 23 months ago

To share the same flat and have a normal life with her



empress19 really needs to claim her taxes back!

Well I'm back again 2 years ago

Back to square one….sigh



empress19 really needs to claim her taxes back!

Untitled 2 years ago

90 days and countin



empress19 really needs to claim her taxes back!

I dont know 2 years ago

if i should mark this off while i am doing this or when i complete it coz at the mo’ i am livin with her for 3 months..



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