learn to be more independent

I neeed to be more independent because I need to stop waiting for people to so this with ,or to tell me to do something. Because I’m eighteen now, I just need to reliaze that I’m in charge of my life

I have a long way to go…my problem is emotional dependence be it on my husband or my parents, it always lets me down and i take hell of a time to come out of it.The expectations off me are high and i feel burdened by it. I am struggling hard within myself but nothing has worked out yet. Hope i’ll make a breakthrough soon.

Well, this is definitly marked off my list of things to do. Even though it’s because of a bad situation (My mother got hit by a car, and I am now taking care of her), it’s definitly showed me independence. It’s definitly been a mile stone and I’ve learned just how much I can really do. But things will get better, and the skills I’ve learned from this will be used indefinitly. I guess you’ve got to look at the positives, especially in a negitive situation.