Well, things have broken the camel’s back. I am working with my husband on the divorce. I know that it takes 2 to make things work and I can’t carry everything on my shoulders. I know from here to the end of time I will always love my husband, but things just can be so. I’ve accepted that we will not be forever. But I know that he is a good man. I know that he is a man with love, but right now he is unable to give any and that is okay. 7 years ago

My hubby was home, from Iraq, the last two weeks. He left yesterday. I did not see him, but I spoke to him. I’m amazed on how nervous I was. So scared of saying the wrong things and making him mad. But once we hung up, I realized that it went well. I have no regrets for not seeing him. I know that God has a plan. There was a reason why we only spoke just a few times and a few minutes. I know there is a reason why we didn’t see each other. I will be lying if I were to say that it doesn’t bother me or that I’m not hurt, but I’m at peace. I’m at peace because I know I did not do anything to stress my husband out more than he should. Our conversations were about things that mattered to us like the dogs, his jeep, and our well-being. We were being careful with each other. Making sure we were not stepping on each other’s toes. So I guess we have some respect for each other still. 7 years ago

Although my husband is still sticking to his guns on getting a divorce, I know he heard what I said. I feel so much better now. I was nervous as hell, but it turned out well. I just feel so lucky to have spoken to my husband. AND it was not for a few minutes. I got to be that much closer to him for just about 30 mins. 7 years ago

If my husband wants a divorce so bad, why does he keep telling me to go file? At first he did not want to go to court, now he’s telling me to file and after 60 days set a date to go to court. By all is said and done, he will be coming back. I just don’t understand what he wants. Men… 7 years ago

My husband is in Iraq and now preparing to file for divorce. If I could have one day today, it would be speak to my husband! 7 years ago