Yesterday the 1st garage sounded so non-plussed about fixing my car. I whimpered to Dave about it and he really is no help either, because I know he is not in total favor of my getting it fixed. I am glad to report, however, that I made my own decision about it and called a different garage. The new guy will look at it next week. THIS definately falls into the category of making something happen instead of letting it happen.
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I nearly slipped into my "helpless" mode
3 years ago
Ex h called twice
3 years ago
I am not calling him back. That is making things happen. for sure. I am very conditioned to call him back whenever he calls me. not now. I don’t feel like being polite.
I told ex he absolutely has to pay me
3 years ago
what he owes me. If he doesn’t I will take him to court. I have never stood my ground with him before. He didn’t like it.
I have been passive, instead of active
3 years ago
I am on my way to really changing this! starting today I am going to ask myself am I “allowing” something to happen…or am I MAKING something happen?
