get over the death of a loved one

My dad died when I was six and I truly loved him.Now Im 13 and I just feel like a peice of me is missing

How do you get over someone dying? a friend of my daughter was killed in a car accident 10 days ago and I can not stop crying. Crying because of the wonderful person the world is missing out on now that he died and crying because I am so lucky that by the grace of god it wasn’t my own son or daughter. I cry with sorrow and guilt and don’t know what to do with these feelings. My heart breaks for his family and friends and although I was not close to him personally I feel like I lost someone I loved.

Hello, I lost my husband to suicide Dec. 8th 2006. It was an abusive relationship and I’m lucky to be alive. I’m 29, and very blessed decpite of this tradegy. I want to move on now, we didn’t have kids and I still want a family someday. I have work to do on myself, I need to stop drowning my problems in alcohol. It’s been good lately, I don’t find the need to drink for no reason and have cut down a lot. I want to hit the gym like I used to before I met my husband, I was looking good and most importantly feeling good. I want my life back! It’s the motivation I lack, I have faith I’ll get there, thanks for reading!

Hey Eh My Dad Hung Himself 3 Years Ago I Will Never Get Over Him Today Is Xmas And I Hate That Hes Not Here And That I Will Never Be Able To See Him Agen But Sumtimes I Get A Feeling That He Can See Meh Or He Touches Meh Iht Disny Happen Aw Eh Tym But Wen Iht Dose OMG Ihts Great I Dream About Him Sumtimes And Ihts Great But Lately I Realy Need Him To Tell Meh Im Goin To Be Ok Because Somtimes Iht Feels Like Im Goin To Be Ripped Apart One Way Or Another And Wen He Was Here He Made Meh Feel Safe And Always Put A Smile On My Face If Your Readin This Iht Mite Not Make Sence But Iht Doses To Meh

Has Any1 Any Ideas How I Can Get Over Him??

Wb Luff Linda xx

There’s no remedy for the finality of the loss. More so if, like me, you are an atheist or generally don’t believe in any form of afterlife. The loss is final and this is what really delivers the blow I think.

The only thing that seems to help is knowing for a fact that most people want their loved ones to enjoy and celebrate their lives as much as possible after they have departed. This is what I want for people when I die and this is what most people would want for their loved ones. It’s the most comforting thing I can think of at really low times.

I’m pretty sure that even when one does get over such a loss, the memories that resurface are bittersweet but still, if you can find a place and a time where you can remember those people and not feel hopeless I really think that’s the best thing you can do to cope, you know?

i lost two cousins over some bullshyt. the day before their funeral i was delousional. i refused to believe that they were gone. i called my older cousin’s cell phone 12 times hoping that maybe the funeral was just a bad dream and he was still alive and that his little brother would run out and say we tricked you! we’re fine stop crying. but the truth finally hit me at the burial. i broke down crying with my uncle. but you know what? in the end it gets easier because death iz easy, dying is the hard part. to see some body die is difficult because you’re watching life slip away from them and that sticks in your mind and slowly erases goodtimes. after a death all you have to do is remember the goodtimes and they’ll always be with you.

I guess it is possible to stop crying over it, or stop getting all depressed. But I dont think its possible to forget about someone after they die. You need to understand death in itself before even thinking about getting over it. All sort of things need to be pondered upon. Spirituality, values, religion even. Depends on what you believe in. Letting go is hard enough. Letting go of someone, when you dont know where they are, is even worse.
I guess I need to know if its possible first.
And if it is, I’ll find a way to stop being sad, and smile everything I think of them.
Make it a good thing.
Hmm…