not be shy

i have low confidence, and that’s why i’m shy. if i have the confidence, then i can do anything. I feel like i’m missing out too much in life if i’m shy, and it’s the main source of my problems. I have to start getting confident and not shy :)

One day i can talk a lot then the next day i barely talk or even look at you… it makes it really hard to keep girls because i know im a good looking guy that makes me get girls but then they see how boring i am because of how shy i am, they think im not funny but i know that i can be funny but it seems the older i get the more shy i get because even with my best friends i feel shy sometimes and things were never like this before i wish i could change… the reason y im on this is because of this girl that i like and things were goin good for the first week or 2 but i knew the same thing would happen that happens with every other girl and it seems like its going to happen, today she told me on aim where are the funny people at? and i said what do u mean? she said your not funny your friends are… and it kinda stung me so i want to change not only for her but for myself

I am so shy and akward. I hate it. I never know what to say and I constantly worry what other people think about me. I’m pretty girl and people always think that I am stuck up because of that. It sucks. I just want people to like me and appeciate me for who I am. I also want to be able to talk to people. I’m 23 now and I’m just as shy as I was when I was 3, maybe worse. I feel trapped. :(

So I think confidence is the issue of being shy! I think its true, just because the reason why I”m shy is because I think ppl are judging me, looking at me, I don’t fit to anyones standards of being a person, I feel that I”m ugly and not worth anyones time, I feel like I bring boredom to everyone around me, and the list goes on and a lot of thinking hard about being shy, it all comes down to CONFIDENCE!. So my question is how do I get confidence? Any one got answers please do tell and if it’s good or bad comment than comment away. Like I said you can actually learn and grow from a good and even more from a bad one! Sometimes a person doesn’t want to hear the truth cos it sucks and hurts so much, but sometimes its what we need to hear and try to move on or grow from that bad experience! So I’m ready anyone! Give it to me lol.

I’m a really shy guy, I find it hard to talk to others and always find it hard to express my feelings. I dislike big crowded places, I tend to wonder off by myself. I always feel like someone is Judging.

Today is December 4, 2008 and I decided to speak up and not be shy anymore.

I’m exremely shy and do not have many friends at all… I find every social situation to be hard and awkward. I also have problems expressing my feelings.

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I’m fed up with being shy, i need some help to boost my confidence! I always prefere to be on my own and i never really socilise much anymore, i’m so insecure and have little confidence in myself.

im am sooooo shy and i hate it all my friends just ignore me because i just dont say anything its such a horrible feeling!!!!!!:(:(:(:(