argue with my husband less

My husband and I have been taking a walk every night and talking about everything that is going on with our lives and it seems to be helping us a lot more. We have only fought once this week and it was stupid so we are doing a lot better. Walking every night gives us a common goal of getting in better shape and just enjoying each others company. It is absolutely wonderful! I normally get upset with him since he is on the computer all the time, but with taking a walk every day, he has to set apart time to do something with me, so I don’t feel left out any more. And having time for us to be together every day makes me want to fight less. I am just….HAPPY!!!

My husband and I have been married over a year now and it seems like we have some of the stupidest fights. We really do. We can argue about anything, it seems, and he and I are both tired of it. I mean, it isn’t like we have big fights or anything, it is just that we have a ton of little fights here and there. I really want us to work on not fighting any more.

I think I am going to try and have a daily talk with him where we can both get things off of our chests and try to work through any problems we are having. Then, if an actual fight arises, take a few minutes to cool off then really discuss our aggravations and work through whatever brought the fight up to begin with.

I really hope this will keep our little fights from ever becoming huge fights. I love him so much and don’t like fighting at all.

much better now – arguments down to about one a week if that :-)

we had a big argument today mainly about nothing! :-( But we made up within hours so it wasn’t too bad.