he also agree
2 years ago
I found that he also agree with me, and tell me he thinks so.
we both feel relax now
How to expect less
It made me
accept people 
"I learned to expect fewer favors from people, but now I'm learning to demand that people perform their jobs with minimum competence."
How I did it: I learned who I can depend on and who I can't. As a bonus, I became a better judge of character. Good friends and a loving partner are the luxuries that make life wonderful, and if you have friends and a lover, you're incredibly fortunate. But in the final analysis, you can really only depend on yourself. So the challenge is to become someone that you can depend upon.
Lessons & tips: Simply accept that people don't owe you anything other than minimum performance for the job they're being paid for. That's all I have any right to expect.
Resources: Nope. I don't know anything that will help you become self reliant. Maybe some therapy if you're really dependent.
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don't expect too much
2 years ago
in fact, we cannot be friends and I start to feel lost. feel so bad about not being able to keep the relationship
Untitled
3 years ago
“I didn’t expect anything much and because of that i’m the least bitter woman I know.”
Untitled
4 years ago
i tend to expect a lot from other people or from relationships that i get disappointed when it doesnt get done or is not what i “expected” it to be. they say expectation is one of the great love-enders. so i guess i should just accept things and people as they are, not to demand more than what they can give, give without expecting anything in return..that way i wont get hurt or be disappointed in the end. :)
