care less about what others think of me

Today I went down to go jet skiing with my husband, my sister in law,her bf and his mom. His mom (sister in law’s bf mom)is REALLY mean and judgemental I heard. On the way there I started to get a bit nervous but I prayed about it and put it in God’s hands. God says I’m awesome and I’m here for a reason, so why would I let ANYONE else tell me otherwise and believe it. Who are they? So I just did me,I was myself and was way better at not caring if anyone liked it or not. I thought about what kind of impression I may have made for a few seconds. And then I said who cares! So I’m getting better at this:) I still gotta work on some things. Like when I go out in crowds etc. But hey at least I’m not where I was:)

I think I’m almost done with this. I don’t really think about what people think anymore at all. For like the past few months.

I remember back in the day I used to wear dresses over jeans, wear two braids in my hair without fear it’ll look dumb and immature etc etc. Point is I would do whatever made me happy and not give a rats you know what about what anyone thought about it. I’d like to get that feeling back. I’d like to not feel kinda nervous in crowds or speaking with people I don’t already know. I used to enjoy those things the most.

I want to care less about what others think of me, because I’m the only one who knows the real me, and besides that: why should you care about what some people you don’t even know think about you, when your real friends will know the truth.
And there is nothing wrong with being yourself, despite of what other think.

You can better be a good version of yourself, than be a bad copie of someone else.

i am going to try and stop worrying what people are saying behind my back and whether they like me or not . When i have achieved this “non-caring state” i will have achieved this goal!

This will be one of the hardest habits for me to break…

I think I was brought up to worry about the smallest things in life. I try to please everyone even if it is something I don’t agree with, so my goal is to please me and to not worry about what others will think.

I’m beginning to learn that it’s impossible to like everyone you meet, or for everyone you meet to like you.

I wasn’t put on this earth to conform to what pleases other people.

I’m counting this as done because each day I’m being more aware of this. Some days I’m successful, others are not quite as successful – but I’m trying and improving.
I just constantly have to remind myself that I’m a complete and happy person with or without the approval of others. I just need to keep embracing what I love and what brings me happiness.

I really am working hard on this. I am trying to stay ‘in the moment’ more and concentrating on being the best that I can be, rather than worrying about other people so much. I’m enjoying college a lot more because of this. I figure that I can only be true to myself in life, and as long as I am happy and living a positive life then that’s great.